I need advice quickly.
It is about the new cat we picked up from the RSPCA. I am totally smitten with him, and now he is just coming out of his shell, I'm even more enchanted by him.
Since we bought him home, mum and I have had a nagging thought, that what if his owners are still looking for him. They would have had 5 days time in order to find him( 9 days before we bought him home ). That isn't long. The RSPCA shelter is really far away from the location they found him, but it is 12 minutes away from us. They told us he was in immaculate condition and only had one or two matts in his fur. His teeth were perfect, and his ears were clean. Someone obviously cared. He is nervous, but very affection, and loves cuddles.
Last night, I dreamt he was sitting on my chest, and saying " please help me, I want to go home, I don't belong here " over and over again. He claws at windows and doors, to get out, and I have an awful feeling that as soon as we do, he's going to go off to try to get home. Mum does too, but when I sat and told her about it, in tears, she started to cry too, and told me she can't bear to give him up, now we've had him for a couple of days. He is legally ours. The owner's should have looked everywhere, but this shelter is really far away from his home town and not everyone would think of contacting them as they are not a well known branch. Mum stopped crying and with a hardened face, said " I'm never going to a rescue shelter again. I can't cope with all your melodramatics, I've had enough ! ", and asked me to leave the room. I'm 27 yrs old and I felt like I was 12. It's all to silly, but at least the Mozzie nightmares are stopping !
I clearly am a therapy case, but please tell me what you would do. Am I being stupid ??? I already know that I'm going to have to ring round vets, and look in local papers. I have already contacted the main petshop and asked but they haven't heard anything. And if I find an advert, then what ??? I hit an emotional brick wall again.
Do I call and ask ??? And if it is their cat, they'll certainly want him back, and my family will never forgive me. But to keep a cat that has been the centre of their world...well...it would destroy me if it were my cat.
So, there it is. Stupid Sonia is back again. I am seeing a counsellor next Tuesday, I'm beginning to irrate myself and that's not good !
So tell me. I need to know. What should I do now......more to the point, What WOULD you do ?????????
Peace, Love, and Happiness, Always
Sonia
It is about the new cat we picked up from the RSPCA. I am totally smitten with him, and now he is just coming out of his shell, I'm even more enchanted by him.
Since we bought him home, mum and I have had a nagging thought, that what if his owners are still looking for him. They would have had 5 days time in order to find him( 9 days before we bought him home ). That isn't long. The RSPCA shelter is really far away from the location they found him, but it is 12 minutes away from us. They told us he was in immaculate condition and only had one or two matts in his fur. His teeth were perfect, and his ears were clean. Someone obviously cared. He is nervous, but very affection, and loves cuddles.
Last night, I dreamt he was sitting on my chest, and saying " please help me, I want to go home, I don't belong here " over and over again. He claws at windows and doors, to get out, and I have an awful feeling that as soon as we do, he's going to go off to try to get home. Mum does too, but when I sat and told her about it, in tears, she started to cry too, and told me she can't bear to give him up, now we've had him for a couple of days. He is legally ours. The owner's should have looked everywhere, but this shelter is really far away from his home town and not everyone would think of contacting them as they are not a well known branch. Mum stopped crying and with a hardened face, said " I'm never going to a rescue shelter again. I can't cope with all your melodramatics, I've had enough ! ", and asked me to leave the room. I'm 27 yrs old and I felt like I was 12. It's all to silly, but at least the Mozzie nightmares are stopping !
I clearly am a therapy case, but please tell me what you would do. Am I being stupid ??? I already know that I'm going to have to ring round vets, and look in local papers. I have already contacted the main petshop and asked but they haven't heard anything. And if I find an advert, then what ??? I hit an emotional brick wall again.
Do I call and ask ??? And if it is their cat, they'll certainly want him back, and my family will never forgive me. But to keep a cat that has been the centre of their world...well...it would destroy me if it were my cat.
So, there it is. Stupid Sonia is back again. I am seeing a counsellor next Tuesday, I'm beginning to irrate myself and that's not good !
So tell me. I need to know. What should I do now......more to the point, What WOULD you do ?????????
Peace, Love, and Happiness, Always
Sonia