Hello everyone,
I'm new here and I have a problem with my two cats Mocha and Chewy. This may be a little bit long, but if you can offer advice I would really appreciate it, because I'm very stressed out about this and almost in tears.
Thanks.
Anyways..so my husband and I have had Mocha..our eldest..for 5 years, she's a female and we got her as an abused stray. She's great, a little quirky, but we love her. Last year we decided to share the love if you will and get another cat. Enter Chewy...2 yr old male, (he's now 3). From the beggining they never got along. We tried everything, seperating and introducing them slowly, did everything text book the way your supposed to introduce a new cat. Finally the fighting between them started to slow down, but than Mocha started using the floor as her litter box. We asked the vet what was going on. He said it was probably a cry for help, that she was upset by Chewy and scared of him. Just for reference...Chewy is 14 pds, Mocha is 9 so he outweighs her by quite alot.
Anyways, the vet recomended that we seperate them again and start the introduction process over. So we did, now a year later, they still do not get along. We seperate them in different rooms during the day when we are at work and let them out at night, when they are in the same area, Mocha will hide on top of the cabinet or fridge or under the kitchen table. Chewy will look for any oppurtunity to jump on her and start a fight. He's such a bully. Anyways, last night they had a particularly loud and upsetting tussle. I just don't know what to do anymore. Seperately they are both wonderful cats, Chewy is the biggest love he just purrs and purrs..but he bullies Mocha and that is not fair to her. It is also not fair for Chewy to be locked up all the time, even though we let him out at night, he needs constant attention and I think he gets lonely and cries at the door.
So today I was telling one of my friends about the tussle last night and she mentioned that her aunt was looking for a cat, which of course got me thinking. Should we give Chewy to her aunt, where he would get all the attention in the world and have a great home?
I just don't know what to do. We love him, my husband especially and it'd be so sad to let go of such a great cat. SO please is you have any advise, let me know. Any tips to try to get them to get along would be very welcomed. Thanks so much for reading this through if you made it this far.
I'm new here and I have a problem with my two cats Mocha and Chewy. This may be a little bit long, but if you can offer advice I would really appreciate it, because I'm very stressed out about this and almost in tears.
Anyways..so my husband and I have had Mocha..our eldest..for 5 years, she's a female and we got her as an abused stray. She's great, a little quirky, but we love her. Last year we decided to share the love if you will and get another cat. Enter Chewy...2 yr old male, (he's now 3). From the beggining they never got along. We tried everything, seperating and introducing them slowly, did everything text book the way your supposed to introduce a new cat. Finally the fighting between them started to slow down, but than Mocha started using the floor as her litter box. We asked the vet what was going on. He said it was probably a cry for help, that she was upset by Chewy and scared of him. Just for reference...Chewy is 14 pds, Mocha is 9 so he outweighs her by quite alot.
Anyways, the vet recomended that we seperate them again and start the introduction process over. So we did, now a year later, they still do not get along. We seperate them in different rooms during the day when we are at work and let them out at night, when they are in the same area, Mocha will hide on top of the cabinet or fridge or under the kitchen table. Chewy will look for any oppurtunity to jump on her and start a fight. He's such a bully. Anyways, last night they had a particularly loud and upsetting tussle. I just don't know what to do anymore. Seperately they are both wonderful cats, Chewy is the biggest love he just purrs and purrs..but he bullies Mocha and that is not fair to her. It is also not fair for Chewy to be locked up all the time, even though we let him out at night, he needs constant attention and I think he gets lonely and cries at the door.
So today I was telling one of my friends about the tussle last night and she mentioned that her aunt was looking for a cat, which of course got me thinking. Should we give Chewy to her aunt, where he would get all the attention in the world and have a great home?