When you went to adopt your cats, to a shelter perhaps, did you just get a feeling that this cat was meant to live with you forever? And if you don't get the feeling that tells you it's right, is it better not to go ahead with an adoption?
My experiences have got me thinking. My experience was very painful and I am very interested in it not ever happening again. I have heard some wisdom here that could spare me the pain. Many people have said to let cats choose you. I think this is true. But sometimes it just feels right, and without that feeling maybe it's better not to.
I am still very confused about whether I should ever adopt a cat again. I still have a lot of guilt and regret, which has resurfaced after a period of numbness. I just know I can't go through that experience again.
My experiences have got me thinking. My experience was very painful and I am very interested in it not ever happening again. I have heard some wisdom here that could spare me the pain. Many people have said to let cats choose you. I think this is true. But sometimes it just feels right, and without that feeling maybe it's better not to.
I am still very confused about whether I should ever adopt a cat again. I still have a lot of guilt and regret, which has resurfaced after a period of numbness. I just know I can't go through that experience again.