Last night I went to a make-up party round a friends house, I was the first there and my friend and I were getting things ready. She has a new kitten - only about 8 weeks old and its teeny!! Cute as a bug and such a sweetie
, and she also has a puppy (a complete psycho who she just doesn't train... but thats beside the point! haha)
Anyway, people started to arrive and of course they were all "oooing and ahhhhhing" over the little kitten, and the puppy... and lots of "pet talk" started. I thought "oo, its going to be a good night, make-up and lots of animal lovers!" thinking these people were nice..... anyway, as the night went on, and eveyone had arrived (we were still waiting for the make-up artist to arrive) the conversation, though still about anilmals, seemed to completely change direction, there was a pregnant girl there and a lady who had just had a baby, and they started saying about how they "got rid" of all their pets as soon as they knew they were pregnant - saying you can't have pets AND a baby around.... it turned into a conversation about how to "get rid" of cats and comments like "oh I wouldn't take it to the shelter, I'd just kick it out - after all, its a CAT" and they'd all have a great laugh about it... then the puppy would start playing up and comments like "that dogs mental, it needs a good slapping to sort it out" ?!?!?!?! I couldn't quite believe what I was hearing... these people were obviously the kind of people who get a pet for the "cuteness factor" and as soon as it wears off.... bye bye!
Anyway, I know this might sound like I over re-acted, but after an hour and a half of hearing these people say cruel, unkind, flippant things about what they'd do to animals.... I left. The party hadn't even started - the make up artist was late so we were all just sat around waiting... I guess they thought I was a bit strange leaving before it even started, but I'd had enough and suddenly didn't feel like a "girly night" with these people. I made my excuses and left, I felt out of place and just wanted to go home and snuggle my babies!!
Anyway, people started to arrive and of course they were all "oooing and ahhhhhing" over the little kitten, and the puppy... and lots of "pet talk" started. I thought "oo, its going to be a good night, make-up and lots of animal lovers!" thinking these people were nice..... anyway, as the night went on, and eveyone had arrived (we were still waiting for the make-up artist to arrive) the conversation, though still about anilmals, seemed to completely change direction, there was a pregnant girl there and a lady who had just had a baby, and they started saying about how they "got rid" of all their pets as soon as they knew they were pregnant - saying you can't have pets AND a baby around.... it turned into a conversation about how to "get rid" of cats and comments like "oh I wouldn't take it to the shelter, I'd just kick it out - after all, its a CAT" and they'd all have a great laugh about it... then the puppy would start playing up and comments like "that dogs mental, it needs a good slapping to sort it out" ?!?!?!?! I couldn't quite believe what I was hearing... these people were obviously the kind of people who get a pet for the "cuteness factor" and as soon as it wears off.... bye bye!
Anyway, I know this might sound like I over re-acted, but after an hour and a half of hearing these people say cruel, unkind, flippant things about what they'd do to animals.... I left. The party hadn't even started - the make up artist was late so we were all just sat around waiting... I guess they thought I was a bit strange leaving before it even started, but I'd had enough and suddenly didn't feel like a "girly night" with these people. I made my excuses and left, I felt out of place and just wanted to go home and snuggle my babies!!