Falling in love

arie85

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It's now 09:32 in Dallas TX, I'm not in NJ now but there, in Dallas

I don't want to talk about it so much but I feel like I do want to express what I'm feeling now somewhere... I'm now on a short vacation, visiting a family I know, and one person in the family there is almost 17 (I'm almost 22 btw) - I don't know if what happened is okay or not but yesterday for the first time I felt like falling in love and she too, and I've never had this feeling before in my life, and I don't know if it's good or not, and I don't know if it's okay that I'm trying to talk about it in the forum or I don't know

We are far away from each other and I will miss her a lot and she told me the same

Is that normal? I'm really sorry if I'm sound stupid

Arie

 

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If she's not 18 yet, you are playing around with jail bait. If it really is love, you can wait a few years. Keep in touch as FRIENDS only - nothing beyond that so you don't get in trouble.
 
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Originally Posted by GoldenKitty45

If she's not 18 yet, you are playing around with jail bait. If it really is love, you can wait a few years. Keep in touch as FRIENDS only - nothing beyond that so you don't get in trouble.
I'm not referring to sex or something similar,this isn't what I'm looking for nor wanna talk about in here



I'm just a bit confused now, I'm having a feeling I've never had before and I'm really feeling weird



Just wanted to share it I guess or I don't know...
 

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Why would it be wrong? Love can be painfull, but it is wonderfull too. Falling in love does feel a bit strange, I'm guessing you can't stop thinking about the other person?
 

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not sure what the laws are there, but know lots of people here who are 24 and have a 17 yr old partner... I dont see how that would be going against the law?
 

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Falling in love for the fist time is a very precious thing. Enjoy it, cherish it, it only happens once. Since you are speaking of an emotional thing, not a physical one, I see nothing wrong with it.
 
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Originally Posted by fwan

not sure what the laws are there, but know lots of people here who are 24 and have a 17 yr old partner... I dont see how that would be going against the law?
I'm not talking about the law nor about sex... I just don't know what's wrong with me today


I feel very weird now, don't know how to describe this...
 

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To quote Bambi, you are "twitterpated"! And its a good thing! It's amazing when you find someone you "click" with...enjoy it! I would be careful since she is under 18 and you are older, but that doesn't mean that you can't build a friendship and keep in touch until she is older. Those first feelings are wonderful!
 

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Originally Posted by calico2222

To quote Bambi, you are "twitterpated"! And its a good thing! It's amazing when you find someone you "click" with...enjoy it! I would be careful since she is under 18 and you are older, but that doesn't mean that you can't build a friendship and keep in touch until she is older. Those first feelings are wonderful!
Thats very cute though, congrats on the "feeling"
 
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