here's the situation. my husband and i have been together 11 years this november. his male cousin and my female cousin are married also for 8 years. following me? well she has been unhappy and out of love for some time now. she has also wanted to leave for sometime now. well, she did yesterday. her and their two kids. what gave her the courage to leave is 1 week ago she met a man. their eyes met from across the room and they already claim to love each eachother. i do believe in true love and whats ment to be will be. and her and her husband were never ment to be. she seems to really be in love. there is something in her i have never seen befor. heres the problem her husband does not know about the other man. and either does my husband. if i told my husband he would want to tell her husband. got me? so i have covered for her and lied to my husband and hers. and i hate it! she swears he would hurt her or tear up her stuff in the house. with good reason! i don't like lying period. it is eating me up inside. my husband and i went to see her husband last night and it killed me. i did let him know he does not need her and he deserves better. he is a good husband. i am in too deep! her husband is not going to forgive me for not telling him when this all comes out. and if i tell she won't forgive me. what in the world do i do??? i got 3 hours sleep last night because of this! the truth always comes out. help!!!!!
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10/16/02 at 7:35am