Fred is Flying High Over the Rainbow Bridge

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oh my I was only wondering about Fred the other day - I didnt want to be reading this


RIP Sweet Fred, fly high over the Bridge, have fun and play nice with the kitties
 

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He was such a beauty, and his character really shines through in those photos. I am so sorry for your loss
 

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I am so sorry that all your attempts to treat Fred failed and htat he has gone. You must be devastated, after hoping so much.
 

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Fred was obviously very loved and had a wonderful life.
As you said, he's now flying over the rainbow bridge, singing to you and your family.


I'm glad the staff was so supportive and you got home safely. It must have been a very difficult drive.


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Thank you all so much for the wonderful thoughts.

I think today is the hardest so far. When Josh left for work this morning, the house was just so incredibly quiet. I'm so used to hearing him talk and make noises, the house just feels incredibly empty.
First thing in the morning I would cut up apples and grapes and things for his breakfast, but this morning I didn't know what to do. This is just so hard.

We always expected Fred to be around forever ya know? We always even joked about passing him down to the kids. Its just like a really bad dream....and I can't wake up.
 

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Originally Posted by maddensmom

Thank you all so much for the wonderful thoughts.

I think today is the hardest so far. When Josh left for work this morning, the house was just so incredibly quiet. I'm so used to hearing him talk and make noises, the house just feels incredibly empty.
First thing in the morning I would cut up apples and grapes and things for his breakfast, but this morning I didn't know what to do. This is just so hard.

We always expected Fred to be around forever ya know? We always even joked about passing him down to the kids. Its just like a really bad dream....and I can't wake up.
My heart aches for you.
The hardest part of being on this end of things is feeling so helpless. I wish I could sing to you!

It's normal to feel so stunned after something like this. Just know that when you think you see a movement or hear a noise and you think "it's Fred!" - but it can't be - know in your heart that it is. It is Fred being with you from across the rainbow bridge in the only way he can be with you now, doing what he can to let you know how much he loves you.




Laurie
 

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I'm so sorry of his passing, but it seems that it was your best decision to send him to school to be taken care of. He was in the arms of professionals when it happened and that is where he was meant to be. I hope you are doing alright coping with the loss. Take care and don't worry, he will always be watching over you from rainbow bridge.
 

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I'm so sorry you lost your Fred.
He was such a handsome boy!
 
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I wanted to thank you all again for all of the support that I have received here throughout this whole event. Ya'll have all been wonderful, I could never thank you enough.

Fred really was like our child. A mischievous, loud, funny, loving child. We miss him so much.

Yesterday was a good day, no tears.
We talk about him a lot, and its getting easier and easier as the days progress. When we are both ready, we think we will fill his cage with another Grey. A rescue (as Fred was). Preferably one that has been deemed unadaptable for behavior problems. Fred had his share, and we are well equipped and patient enough to give one of these unfortunate souls a forever home. It will be awhile before we do, but the thought gives me comfort.

Today I received a wonderful card from my regular vet (the one who referred me to LSU when he realized what we were dealing with). It spoke of the Rainbow Bridge, and my vets heartfelt sympathy. It made me cry all over again, but this time it was happy tears. I know that he's ok, and he's watching over me. My vet fell in love with the little guy through the course of finding out what was wrong, and it hurt him deeply that nothing could be done. I really do have the best vet in the world. I
him.

Things are getting easier and settling down. It's still hard, and I know it will be for awhile, but I also know that its part of the healing process. I look forward to the days when I can think of him and laugh at the memories. He was such a goofy bird!


Thank you all again for your support, it really does mean the world to me.
 

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Originally Posted by maddensmom

I wanted to thank you all again for all of the support that I have received here throughout this whole event. Ya'll have all been wonderful, I could never thank you enough.

Fred really was like our child. A mischievous, loud, funny, loving child. We miss him so much.

Yesterday was a good day, no tears.
We talk about him a lot, and its getting easier and easier as the days progress. When we are both ready, we think we will fill his cage with another Grey. A rescue (as Fred was). Preferably one that has been deemed unadaptable for behavior problems. Fred had his share, and we are well equipped and patient enough to give one of these unfortunate souls a forever home. It will be awhile before we do, but the thought gives me comfort.

Today I received a wonderful card from my regular vet (the one who referred me to LSU when he realized what we were dealing with). It spoke of the Rainbow Bridge, and my vets heartfelt sympathy. It made me cry all over again, but this time it was happy tears. I know that he's ok, and he's watching over me. My vet fell in love with the guy through the course of finding out what was wrong, and it hurt him deeply that nothing could be done. I really do have the best vet in the world. I
him.

Things are getting easier and settling down. It's still hard, and I know it will be for awhile, but I also know that its part of the healing process. I look forward to the days when I can think of him and laugh at the memories. He was such a goofy bird!


Thank you all again for your support, it really does mean the world to me.
I am glad that things are getting a little better for you and Josh, just remember that we are here for you.

 

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I am so sorry for your loss.
You did everything that was humanly possible to help Fred recover.
It was his time to join the other's, waiting at the Bridge, until they are reunited with their loved ones.


I really admire how hard you tried to help Fred.
He was truly loved and will be with you always in your heart.

Rest in peace sweet Fred.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss. ((Hugssss))


Lend Me A Bird

"I will lend to you for a while, a bird", God said. For you to love him while
he lives and to mourn for him when he is dead.

Maybe for twelve or fourteen years, or maybe for two or three. But will you,
till I call him back, take care of him for me?

He'll bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief,
You'll always have his memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise that he will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught below I want this bird to learn.

I've looked the whole world over in search of teachers true.
And from the folks that crowd life's land, I have chosen you.

Now will you give him all your love; nor think the labor vain;
Nor hate me when I come to take my lovely bird again?

I fancied that I heard them say, "Dear Lord, thy will be done,
for all the joys this bird will bring, the risk of grief we'll run."

Will you shelter him with tenderness?
Will you love him while you may?
And for the happiness you'll know forever grateful stay?

But should I call him back much sooner than you've planned;
Please brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.

If, by your love, you've managed, my wishes to achieve,
In memory of him you've loved; be thankful; do not grieve.

Cherish every moment of your feathered charge.
He filled your home with songs of joy the time he was alive.
Let not his passing take from you those memories to enjoy.

"I will lend to you, a Bird", God said, and teach you all you have to do.
And when I call him back to heaven, you will know he loved you too.

(Author Unknown)
 
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