Could anyone give advie on two 8 week old kittens who are not settling into thier new home. They seem to have bonded with one another more and be afraid of the new owners. The new owners have complained that the cats are fine together but not with them, seeming quite afraid and scratchy. They have so far taken the hands off approach. I suggested feeding chicken by hand and allowing them to become hungry so they have to approach the new owners for food. I also suggested enforced seperation of the 2 kittens for short periods whilst one each of the owners was doing the hand feeding etc. The new owners found the meowing of the kittens whilst seperated quite difficult to tolerate.
I have the other pair of kittens who seem quite active, they are bonded well with one another, but I have had success in playing with them, and having them for a stroke on my lap. One is more affectionate than the other, but it's early days yet. One will sit a few minutes for a stroke and the other wants to get away quite quickly, I feel this is a normal range in kitten/cat temperament. There were 5 kittens and 1 of them was a singularly homed cat who seemed slightly more outgoing than all of them, I will find out later today how she is doing.
I also advised the new owners to try the DAP diffuser, but as they only collected the kittens 2 days ago, I feel the kittens still need quite a lot more time to get to know the new ownwers and respond to them. I did pick up that one of the new owners was upset that the kittens weren't very cuddly and was stressed that they were doing something wrong, and it has made me worry a bit that the new owners may feel like giving up, before they will manage to bring the kittens round.
I feel this will take maybe 3-4 week of thier time, but one of the owners is at home all day and was very excited to get the kittens. I just feel that the kittens have not met the new owners expectations - I feel this is a yet and that with the right bonding process they will grow into a lovely pair. I would hope that hand feeding and gentle encouragement with a little bit of sibling seperation and human bonding could work.
I am eager to give the new owners any additional support and advice they need as they are a lovely couple who could provide a wonderful permanent home if we can pass these initial teething problems.
I would love some support and encouragement to pass on if possible please.
I have the other pair of kittens who seem quite active, they are bonded well with one another, but I have had success in playing with them, and having them for a stroke on my lap. One is more affectionate than the other, but it's early days yet. One will sit a few minutes for a stroke and the other wants to get away quite quickly, I feel this is a normal range in kitten/cat temperament. There were 5 kittens and 1 of them was a singularly homed cat who seemed slightly more outgoing than all of them, I will find out later today how she is doing.
I also advised the new owners to try the DAP diffuser, but as they only collected the kittens 2 days ago, I feel the kittens still need quite a lot more time to get to know the new ownwers and respond to them. I did pick up that one of the new owners was upset that the kittens weren't very cuddly and was stressed that they were doing something wrong, and it has made me worry a bit that the new owners may feel like giving up, before they will manage to bring the kittens round.
I feel this will take maybe 3-4 week of thier time, but one of the owners is at home all day and was very excited to get the kittens. I just feel that the kittens have not met the new owners expectations - I feel this is a yet and that with the right bonding process they will grow into a lovely pair. I would hope that hand feeding and gentle encouragement with a little bit of sibling seperation and human bonding could work.
I am eager to give the new owners any additional support and advice they need as they are a lovely couple who could provide a wonderful permanent home if we can pass these initial teething problems.
I would love some support and encouragement to pass on if possible please.