A few days ago I recieved a call from my mother and she informed me that my grandmother was going into surgery to have her leg amputated. It was a bit suprising but she is a diabetic and I knew she didn't take good care of herself. Last year she had to have part of her foot amputated.
The real kicker of it is that my grandmother's companion(I'd hate to say boyfriend since they've been together for many years) called my mom to let her know this and that he physically could not take care of her anymore. He asked my mom to move down to Florida(where they live) to take care of her.
My poor mom is tearing herself up over this. She WANTS to take care of her mother but at the same time she has a great job that she worked very hard for and she has my brother and sister whom she doesn't think my soon to be ex-stepfather will let her take them out of state.
So on Friday my mom called me to let me know how gramma was doing. She had her surgery but because her heart was so weak she is in critical condition and is last I knew in ICU. The nurses told my mother stright out that my grandmother is not a well woman and they were not sure of what was going to happen.
I'm waiting for another call from my mom to see if she found out anything new or if she was able to talk to my grandmother at all. If you could send some good thoughts her way... She really needs them!
Has anyone else had to deal with a situation like this? I'm used to dealing with diabetic dogs and cats not people! Any words of wisdom?
The real kicker of it is that my grandmother's companion(I'd hate to say boyfriend since they've been together for many years) called my mom to let her know this and that he physically could not take care of her anymore. He asked my mom to move down to Florida(where they live) to take care of her.
My poor mom is tearing herself up over this. She WANTS to take care of her mother but at the same time she has a great job that she worked very hard for and she has my brother and sister whom she doesn't think my soon to be ex-stepfather will let her take them out of state.
So on Friday my mom called me to let me know how gramma was doing. She had her surgery but because her heart was so weak she is in critical condition and is last I knew in ICU. The nurses told my mother stright out that my grandmother is not a well woman and they were not sure of what was going to happen.
I'm waiting for another call from my mom to see if she found out anything new or if she was able to talk to my grandmother at all. If you could send some good thoughts her way... She really needs them!
Has anyone else had to deal with a situation like this? I'm used to dealing with diabetic dogs and cats not people! Any words of wisdom?