We did wind up going out to dinner anyway, locked her in my bedroom bathroom closet....lol...(three rooms, all connected) and did so again when we went to bed, but still nothing....I will post some pictures if I can figure out how....My male keeps swatting at her like she has offended him somehow, but he is old and cranky...and fixed! lol! He is 7 1/2 and she is 2....I think he just wants to be young and breed!