I feel so guilty, I just have to tell someone about this...
There's a woman who lives across from my Mom & Dad's house who has precious little ten-year-old twin girls. We've all known the family ever since the girls were born. I adore the girls (I've already chosen one of them to eventually marry my little nephew
), and although their mom is awfully conservative for me, she's been very good to my folks and I appreciate that a lot.
So about a year ago, the girls decided they wanted a kitten, and since I volunteer at a shelter, they asked me to help them find one. I took them to my shelter, but their mom (who had never had a pet before) just wasn't ready. She was worried about shedding and scratching and how do you train them to go in the box and so forth.
I gave her all kinds of reassurance and encouragement, and I'm sure I played a part in persuading her to let the girls have a kitten. They eventually found a little brown tabby girl at the SPCA.
I didn't meet the kitten until a couple of months later, and my impression was that the poor thing was scared of her own shadow. She cringed and hid and tried to squirm away when the girls would pick her up, even though the girls were very gentle. I don't know how to explain it, but I could just sense that this was a very unhappy kitty... and it's been the same every time I've seen her since.
Well, today I found out why: they had declawed her.
I had talked to the woman about declawing, explained exactly what a cruel mutilation it is, described the problems it can cause for both the cat and the family... and I thought I had convinced her. But today, she was visiting and noticed one of our kitties scratching the sofa, and she said, "That's why I had Misty declawed right away."
For my parents' sake, I didn't want to be too harsh, but I did say, "Oh, no! I didn't know you'd done that. I mean -- all due respect, but... you remember, it's not just removing the claws, it's outright amputation."
And she replied, "Yes, but for me, it was just easier."
So. I know they might have gotten a cat even if I hadn't encouraged them, but... oh, how I wish I hadn't. It breaks my heart to think I played any part in such an evil thing. And I especially worry about what those sweet little girls are learning from a mother who is willing to surgically maim a kitten for her own convenience.
I just feel sick.
There's a woman who lives across from my Mom & Dad's house who has precious little ten-year-old twin girls. We've all known the family ever since the girls were born. I adore the girls (I've already chosen one of them to eventually marry my little nephew
So about a year ago, the girls decided they wanted a kitten, and since I volunteer at a shelter, they asked me to help them find one. I took them to my shelter, but their mom (who had never had a pet before) just wasn't ready. She was worried about shedding and scratching and how do you train them to go in the box and so forth.
I gave her all kinds of reassurance and encouragement, and I'm sure I played a part in persuading her to let the girls have a kitten. They eventually found a little brown tabby girl at the SPCA.
I didn't meet the kitten until a couple of months later, and my impression was that the poor thing was scared of her own shadow. She cringed and hid and tried to squirm away when the girls would pick her up, even though the girls were very gentle. I don't know how to explain it, but I could just sense that this was a very unhappy kitty... and it's been the same every time I've seen her since.
Well, today I found out why: they had declawed her.
I had talked to the woman about declawing, explained exactly what a cruel mutilation it is, described the problems it can cause for both the cat and the family... and I thought I had convinced her. But today, she was visiting and noticed one of our kitties scratching the sofa, and she said, "That's why I had Misty declawed right away."
For my parents' sake, I didn't want to be too harsh, but I did say, "Oh, no! I didn't know you'd done that. I mean -- all due respect, but... you remember, it's not just removing the claws, it's outright amputation."
And she replied, "Yes, but for me, it was just easier."
So. I know they might have gotten a cat even if I hadn't encouraged them, but... oh, how I wish I hadn't. It breaks my heart to think I played any part in such an evil thing. And I especially worry about what those sweet little girls are learning from a mother who is willing to surgically maim a kitten for her own convenience.
I just feel sick.