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post #31 of 53
In my opinion, it's not just the hair. So many things she's done...she has got to be suffering, somehow. I keep looking at how the decisions she's making now are gonna affect her kids. She's a mother, she needs to focus on the kids & do what's best for them. I think she is a good mother...I've seen nothing concrete to prove she isn't. It's just that it seems her haicut & tattoos were a desperate plea, IMO.

Ideally, the media would leave her, her kids, whatever she does....alone. Just let her be in peace...she needs it. Things have been tough on her.....but this article just made me wonder if she was thinking? If she was in rehab for a day...she needed to stay there. Whatever she was in rehab for...I wonder how is has affected her. Judging(strictly from the article posted) she seems to be...troubled. It seems that she was not acting rationally.

It makes me so sad to think that someday....her kids might see things like this.
post #32 of 53
I was thinking she wanted to be hairless - everywhere.
post #33 of 53
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I was thinking she wanted to be hairless - everywhere.
Getting out of cars is a new celebrity trend!
post #34 of 53
I heard she was drugged out or something when she did it, and supposedly the hair stylist wouldn't shave it so Britney did it herself. Wasn't she in rehab a few days ago?

RE: "I was thinking she wanted to be hairless - everywhere."
Like they say, bald is beautiful.
post #35 of 53
I don't have much of an opinion.
She makes me sad. Poor girl, I wonder whats going on with her.. she seems so troubled and in desperate need of help.
Help she'll only get once SHE asks for it. She has to do the hard work, the therapy, rehab, the soul searching in order to find her self esteem.

I don't know.. she just seems so sad.
post #36 of 53
I could care less about what she's thinking....i do however care about what she's NOT thinking about- her two sons! She is obviously neglecting them with all the partying and stupid things she's done lately. I hope she FINALLY decides to stay the course and get the help she needs- those boys need their mom- and they need their mom to be there for them- not leave them with a sitter while she's going out to party, shave her head, and get tattoos! I know a lot of people disliker her- i don't really care eithor way- i see a person, not a celebrity right now- and i see that this person is going downhill fast- she needs to get help and she NEEDS to step up to the plate and be there for her sons. And just to add one more thing- her new "edgy look" just looks plain trashy in my opinion.
post #37 of 53
2 babies, in 2 years- I wonder (sorry if this has been mentioned before, I'm running out of time and didn't get to read the whole thread) if she has been checked for post partum depression? Severe cases of that can make people do nutsy things they wouldn't normally do .
post #38 of 53
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2 babies, in 2 years- I wonder (sorry if this has been mentioned before, I'm running out of time and didn't get to read the whole thread) if she has been checked for post partum depression? Severe cases of that can make people do nutsy things they wouldn't normally do .
You know- that's a very valid and good point. I wonder about that. Her behavior just seems out of wack and she just seems so depressed/irrational. I am praying she gets the help she needs- especially for the sake of those two little boys. They deserve to have their momma there with them...and she owes it to herself and her children to get the help she needs to make positive changes in her life.
post #39 of 53
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You know- that's a very valid and good point. I wonder about that. Her behavior just seems out of wack and she just seems so depressed/irrational. I am praying she gets the help she needs- especially for the sake of those two little boys. They deserve to have their momma there with them...and she owes it to herself and her children to get the help she needs to make positive changes in her life.
I mentioned the post-partum thing earlier too...it can make a new mom really irrational and borderline psychotic (not saying she's there yet...maybe just headed in that direction)...

She has looked like total crap the last year or so...haggard, tired, and totally sloppy...and like I said before, I'm not a fan, but I always thought she was a very cute young lady, and while always on the trashier side of the fence, did have her own all-American blonde beauty thing going. She just hasn't looked right to me as of late...too much partying, too many late nights, too much alcohol and/or drugs...I really do think that she's losing her grip. Her career has sunk down the tubes. Apparently she's due for another album later this year and a tour. How hard is this going to be in her current state of mind? Ugh.
post #40 of 53
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I mentioned the post-partum thing earlier too...it can make a new mom really irrational and borderline psychotic (not saying she's there yet...maybe just headed in that direction)...

She has looked like total crap the last year or so...haggard, tired, and totally sloppy...and like I said before, I'm not a fan, but I always thought she was a very cute young lady, and while always on the trashier side of the fence, did have her own all-American blonde beauty thing going. She just hasn't looked right to me as of late...too much partying, too many late nights, too much alcohol and/or drugs...I really do think that she's losing her grip. Her career has sunk down the tubes. Apparently she's due for another album later this year and a tour. How hard is this going to be in her current state of mind? Ugh.
I agree with you 100% on this one. I also think that if need be, she should reschedule her tour and concentrate instead on getting her life back on track and her two little boys before she plans on traveling.
post #41 of 53
IMO, I think K-Fed ruined her. Hopefully she'll find some help fast. People are wondering if she's going to be the next Anna Nicole Smith (whole drug thing, and then her death).
post #42 of 53
Considering we dont know what really happened with their breakup and whats up with her, it just seems like she had a really hard break up and needs to get things off her mind for a while.

I know that when Ben and i Broke up, I smoked and Drank a fair bit of beer and all i wanted to do was party. My parents saw that my behaviour was out of line, but of course they couldnt do anything about it.

I actually like Britney and her Music, I just hope the best for her.
post #43 of 53
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IMO, I think K-Fed ruined her. Hopefully she'll find some help fast. People are wondering if she's going to be the next Anna Nicole Smith (whole drug thing, and then her death).
Well i would say, although yes a negative person can have quite an impact on your life and be quite toxic (it seems that's what K-fed was to her)....the individual decides what they are going to do and how they are going to approach a situation. Nobody else can make up your mind for you- you choose how you are going to live your life and react to things. So yes, while i think he had an impact on her to a degree- ultimately, she has nobody else to blame for her behavior except herself. I pray she gets the help she needs. She is such a beautiful young woman- she's too young to be doing this crazy stuff. I hope she gets it together for her sake and for her children.
post #44 of 53
Honestly, who cares? She is over-rated. She doesn't have an ounce of talent in her, she is a puppet who does what her manager and choreographer tell her to so...a dime a dozen. Anyone can look great with a stylist, a personal trainer, enough publicity, and some Photoshop touch-ups. Perhaps I might have some respect for her if she could actually sing, or write her own music, or play an instrument...anything that defines a real musician/artist.

She is a mother now. Her main concern should be her kids, not partying with Paris Hilton and making headlines. If any normal person did half the crap she is doing now their kids would be taken away from them.
post #45 of 53
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Honestly, who cares? She is over-rated. She doesn't have an ounce of talent in her, she is a puppet who does what her manager and choreographer tell her to so...a dime a dozen. Anyone can look great with a stylist, a personal trainer, enough publicity, and some Photoshop touch-ups. Perhaps I might have some respect for her if she could actually sing, or write her own music, or play an instrument...anything that defines a real musician/artist.

She is a mother now. Her main concern should be her kids, not partying with Paris Hilton and making headlines. If any normal person did half the crap she is doing now their kids would be taken away from them.
I care- reguardless of her talent/etc...she is still a person who has feelings and a heart. I hope she will get the help she needs so that she can be a better mom to her sons and learn that she is worth taking care of herself. Her "status" doesn't matter to me- i care more about the person than the celebrity status. So i hope for her sake she gets help.
post #46 of 53
all i have to say is wow, 4 pages of posts.
post #47 of 53
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all i have to say is wow, 4 pages of posts.
Now Bruce, you're just flattered she followed your lead and got your haircut
post #48 of 53
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all i have to say is wow, 4 pages of posts.
If it makes you feel any better, you can set it so you have more posts per page & then we're only up to 3 pages!
post #49 of 53
I feel bad for her... it must be hard to have so much going wrong in your life and then having to read everywhere about how people think about you. I mean, obviously she needs to realize that kids are involved and the best thing for her to do right now would be to stay at home and spend time with them... but I know what it's like to be so overwhelmed with everything that you can't think straight.

On that note, I wouldn't shave my head. But I have thought about a drastic haircut... so maybe that's not too far off.
post #50 of 53
Another way to look at it though,

Some Native American cultures cut their hair when they are in mourning. It's sort of a statement that once they're hair is long again they'll be fine.

Perhaps she's playing a spin on this? She lost her marriage so she is mourning of the loss.
post #51 of 53
Maybe the head-shaving idea is her latest notion of drawing attention to herself. But I did learn, when I lost most of my hair due to chemotherapy, hair grows back at the rate of about half an inch per month. Hers will come back.
post #52 of 53
Sounds like a nervous breakdown to me.
post #53 of 53
Well, let's see -

She has fame
She has fortune
She has access to a whole host of yummy blokes
She has an adoring fan base
She has two cute kids.

Jeez, I can see how hard life must be for the poor kid - perhaps she would be happier if she was penniless and had to work for a living like the rest of us...............
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