We have a friend who has been married for almost as long as we have. Shortly before my friend (I'll call him BD) got married, he found out that his former girlfriend (LO) was carrying his child. LO told BD that if he wasn't going to marry her, then she didn't want him involved with the child at all, ever. Well so it was said and so it was done.
Fast forward to 2006. BD is being sued for back child support...over $54,000.00 worth! Apparently, there was a hearing held...none of which BD knew anything about nore was he suppoenaed to attend...yet they claim they tried to find him...even went as far as posting a notice in the newspaper where they live...not even knowing if he lived in that area after all these years. Anyway, it is not LO who is suing BD...but the child...who is now in her mid 20's. They have arranged to take a certain amount from BD's paychecks until the $54,000 is paid up!
Does anyone have any ideas or knowledge about stuff like this? I mean, there was never a blood test or DNA or any sort of paternity tests done to prove that this was BD's child. LO just said he wasn't to be involved with them and that was it...that was the last he ever knew anything about the child.
Any ideas or advice will be appreciated...I will pass them on to BD.
Gracias y'all...
Hilda >^..^<
Fast forward to 2006. BD is being sued for back child support...over $54,000.00 worth! Apparently, there was a hearing held...none of which BD knew anything about nore was he suppoenaed to attend...yet they claim they tried to find him...even went as far as posting a notice in the newspaper where they live...not even knowing if he lived in that area after all these years. Anyway, it is not LO who is suing BD...but the child...who is now in her mid 20's. They have arranged to take a certain amount from BD's paychecks until the $54,000 is paid up!
Does anyone have any ideas or knowledge about stuff like this? I mean, there was never a blood test or DNA or any sort of paternity tests done to prove that this was BD's child. LO just said he wasn't to be involved with them and that was it...that was the last he ever knew anything about the child.
Any ideas or advice will be appreciated...I will pass them on to BD.
Gracias y'all...
Hilda >^..^<