Ok, well.. I think I may have gotten lucky, no thanks to my impatience..
We introduced Raleigh and Pogue after about 2 days of seperation..
I think we had several positive things happen yesterday.. First, I let Pogue out and she was on the couch with me, well I got up and came back, Pogue was gone.. I went into the bedroom, there she was.. laying RIGHT on Raleighs spot.. Rut roah, I thought.. So I grabbed Pogue and brought her back into the living room with me..
I went back into the bedroom a little later and Raleigh was sleeping as sound as could be, right in the same spot Pogue was laying, so I think she is getting used to her scent..
Also, hissing was at a minimal level yesterday.. Maybe 6 or 7 times...
Well, last night, was the first night we let Pogue out of the safe room at night, while we were sleeping..
Pogue slept on my side of the bed and Raleigh slept on my wifes side of the bed..
Also, I have been sitting on the couch with Pogue all morning, well I got up again.. and again, Pogue was gone.. I went into the bedroom.. Pogue and Ral are both asleep on the bed.. Not cuddled up or anything, but they are sleeping on the same bed, and there is nary any bloodshed..
I think this is going to work! I can't see it getting anyworse than this, and it's going pretty well..