My sweet Paddy

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I can't believe it. I have only been a member here for just over two weeks, and I was hoping I would never have to post here.

Last night I remember not seeing all four of my boys before I went to bed. Paddy was missing. This is nothing new - they are all outdoor boys and usually spend the night-time causing havoc in the neighbourhood.

I was a little more concerned this morning when he didn't come home for breakfast, and called him for a long while before I set off for work. My other half is working nights this week, and got home about nine, and I had called him to let him know PadCat hadn't come home - he walked around the estate as well, but to no avail. We phoned the vets' to see if anyone had reported a lost/injured cat, and I cursed myself for not putting his collar back on (I took it off a few days ago after he injured his neck, as the collar was irritating the sore skin)

By the time I got home at 6, I was well and truly fearing the worst, and wrapped up warm to do a proper search. I walked all round the houses, where I know he sneaks into peoples gardens, and called till I was hoarse.

In desperation I venture further afield, and eventually walked about 2 miles to the main road at the bottom of the estate. About 500 yards down the road, the street light caught a glimmer of something on the grass verge - a little bright cats' eye, unblinking in darkness. My poor sweet, darling little man
It looks as if he was hit hard, and I guess knew nothing about it - he is hardly marked - just a little trickle of blood on his cheek, but he just looks asleep. A kind passer-by, or whoever hit him, has moved him off the road, so he didn't receive any further damage, he looks very peaceful. I guess he had been there since last night - I imagine he was on his way home from his adventures but never made it. I carried him home, still and cold, and we have laid him in the shed for now - wrapped in him favourite blanket until tomorrow - I can't bear to bury him here, as I think the others will know and worry, so my lovely mum-in-law has asked if I would like to bury him in her garden amongst the flowers - we're going to go tomorrow evening and lay him to rest.

I have been breaking my heart thinking of him lying there alone in the cold all day - but at least I found him and brought him home.

Poor Max is beside himself, he followed me half way round the estate crying for his brother - they were brothers, sparring partners and best friends. Ben and Melchett are a little more solitary, but Max is going to struggle.


Rest in Peace my darling Paddy boy - I will miss you more than you will ever know
 
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A little pic of my special boy - can't stop crying at the moment
 

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I am so so so sorry to hear that.

I am glad that your mother-in-law is gonna let you bury him in her flower garden.

I am sending prayers and hugs from Mississippi to you and your husband, and I am also sending some for Max.

 

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Oh no!
What a terrible shock

I am so sorry this has happened. Paddy was such a sweet and beautiful boy.
You will be in my thoughts.

RIP Paddy
 

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Oh NO, I really didnt want to open this
I am so, so sorry

I think you are right and that his crossing was quick, he didnt feel anything

Heres sending lots of warm & calming thoughts to help you through the forthcoming day
You have some very special memories of Paddy....... and in time those memories will surely make you smile again. Take care



RIP Sweet Paddy, run to your new fur-family, there are some special kitties waiting to play with you

Look down now and then, the love from below will always be there
 

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Oh I'm so sorry to hear about Paddy! He was so beautiful. I had the same experience with my cat Wiley 10 years ago and I know how awful and shocking it is to lose them in such a way. My thoughts are with you, and your other kitties who I'm sure are grieving just as you are.

Rest in peace Paddy, sweet boy.
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss.
Paddy was a beautiful cat. RIP sweet boy.
 

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i am so sorry. he is such a nice looking cat.
rest in peace paddy, play well at the bridge
 

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I'm so sorry about Paddy!


Play happily over the rainbow bridge, baby boy!
 

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How awfully handsome he is... Poor poor Paddy...

From your description... bloody cheek, open eyes, peaceful look... it seems as though he might have had massive head trauma, instant unconsciousness... Not much of a consolation, I'm sure, but I guess it is better than thinking he suffered.

Your boy had all the love you could give him while he was alive; now you have all the memories of the love he gave you.

We have all lost cats here and our experiences probably parallel yours, even though our cats were not Paddy... Pain fades; memories stay...

Hang in there.
 
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Originally Posted by Callista

From your description... bloody cheek, open eyes, peaceful look... it seems as though he might have had massive head trauma, instant unconsciousness... Not much of a consolation, I'm sure, but I guess it is better than thinking he suffered.
Exactly what I have been thinking - my poor baby - missing him so much


thanks for all your lovely kind words though - at least I'm not alone
 

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I'm so sorry about sweet Paddy. What a beautiful boy.
Play happily over the bridge.
 

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I hope your crossing over the Rainbow Bridge was a peaceful one you dear boy. You will be very much missed by your family and us strangers too, bless you sweetie.
 

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oh no!
I am so very sorry..
he was gorgeous. you'll be in my thoughts.
 

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My heart and thoughts go out to you during this terribly difficult time


Sweet Paddy will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved him, his soul will never be far


Rest In Peace sweet Paddy
play happily over the Bridge
 
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