Originally Posted by catloverin_ks
Well she will be 3, but she really probly wont care either way.....
I mean she loves her uncle to death, but yet still too young to fully understand. And I mean to me, lifes way too short to stay mad about petty stuff..but on the other hand, I dont feel like I should kiss his butt either.
I would say if she loves her uncle to death, then she would probably want him to be there.
You have to be real careful here, I did not get along with one of my husbands sisters and later one of his brothers. But that was always their (my childrens) aunt and uncle. You don't want to turn your little girl against her uncle.
My children are much older than your little girl, but when my kids got around 13 or so, I let them make up their own minds about their aunt and uncle. They no longer want to even be around them now because they have seen what kind of stuff their aunt and uncle pull. When my son got married he didn't even want them at his wedding so he didn't invite them.
Your little girl is too young to make her own decisions, but if she loves him, you don't want to do anything to that.
Even though you and him don't get along, there is nothing to say that he won't always be there for your little girl.