Regarding Amber, John and the baby

Originally Posted by sarahp

One of the reasons why I'm so upset about this is that it freaked my husband out about me having kids. As I have said previously, his mother died when he was 3 months old because she chose not to have cancer treatment - she chose to have him, and I have a heart condition which means my pregnancy will be considered "high risk", and I will need to see a high risk ob/gyn, and probably won't be allowed to have a natural birth.

There's the possibility I'm pregnant (4 not pregnant tests though now...

, but still no period), and this really really scared us about how things can go wrong during childbirth

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Originally Posted by HopeHacker

For all of the people who cried, and who mourned the passing of Amber please don't be angry or disappointed in yourselves. You were just feeling the way any decent human being would feel and reacting the way any decent human being would react.

Don't be mad at yourselves because you BELIEVED a story that you couldn't imagine not to be true. After all, what decent person would lie about a death, and about a baby being left alone in life without it's mother? I would say that 99.9% of the members of TCS wonderful, genuine, and honest people. I have never come upon an online community where there was so many wonderful, caring and giving people. Please don't let this jade your hearts, because for every bad person there is out there, there are 3 good people.

To care about this baby and to mourn her mother is natural. If it's a hoax, then remember it's not on you. You didn't make a fool out of yourself for being a DECENT human being, but instead remember it was THEM who made a fool out of themselves, (and their Karma will show this) by trying to take advantage of good and decent hearts.

I myself don't know whether or not it's a hoax or a reality, although I tend to think it is probably a hoax. I know I too shed some tears for that baby, and for the loss of one so young as Amber, not even 21 years of age. I am not going to let myself feel like I was a fool, though, what I will allow myself to feel though, is sorry for anyone who would stoop so low to fabricate a story like this, for what ever reason. If it's fabricated, think of the damage they've done to themselves and their soal. Please don't let it damage who you are, as well.

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Originally Posted by HopeHacker

For all of the people who cried, and who mourned the passing of Amber please don't be angry or disappointed in yourselves. You were just feeling the way any decent human being would feel and reacting the way any decent human being would react.

Don't be mad at yourselves because you BELIEVED a story that you couldn't imagine not to be true. After all, what decent person would lie about a death, and about a baby being left alone in life without it's mother? I would say that 99.9% of the members of TCS wonderful, genuine, and honest people. I have never come upon an online community where there was so many wonderful, caring and giving people. Please don't let this jade your hearts, because for every bad person there is out there, there are 3 good people.

To care about this baby and to mourn her mother is natural. If it's a hoax, then remember it's not on you. You didn't make a fool out of yourself for being a DECENT human being, but instead remember it was THEM who made a fool out of themselves, (and their Karma will show this) by trying to take advantage of good and decent hearts.

I myself don't know whether or not it's a hoax or a reality, although I tend to think it is probably a hoax. I know I too shed some tears for that baby, and for the loss of one so young as Amber, not even 21 years of age. I am not going to let myself feel like I was a fool, though, what I will allow myself to feel though, is sorry for anyone who would stoop so low to fabricate a story like this, for what ever reason. If it's fabricated, think of the damage they've done to themselves and their soal. Please don't let it damage who you are, as well.

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Originally Posted by Bella713

You can go into your profile and make the Rose invisible!

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Originally Posted by HopeHacker

For all of the people who cried, and who mourned the passing of Amber please don't be angry or disappointed in yourselves. You were just feeling the way any decent human being would feel and reacting the way any decent human being would react.

Don't be mad at yourselves because you BELIEVED a story that you couldn't imagine not to be true. After all, what decent person would lie about a death, and about a baby being left alone in life without it's mother? I would say that 99.9% of the members of TCS wonderful, genuine, and honest people. I have never come upon an online community where there was so many wonderful, caring and giving people. Please don't let this jade your hearts, because for every bad person there is out there, there are 3 good people.

To care about this baby and to mourn her mother is natural. If it's a hoax, then remember it's not on you. You didn't make a fool out of yourself for being a DECENT human being, but instead remember it was THEM who made a fool out of themselves, (and their Karma will show this) by trying to take advantage of good and decent hearts.

I myself don't know whether or not it's a hoax or a reality, although I tend to think it is probably a hoax. I know I too shed some tears for that baby, and for the loss of one so young as Amber, not even 21 years of age. I am not going to let myself feel like I was a fool, though, what I will allow myself to feel though, is sorry for anyone who would stoop so low to fabricate a story like this, for what ever reason. If it's fabricated, think of the damage they've done to themselves and their soul. Please don't let it damage who you are, as well.

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Originally Posted by Arlyn

With the new federal privacy laws, Hospitals and such do not give out ANY information beyond whether or not such and such came into the ER.

I would assume that the names are fake for two reasons:

1) If this is indeed a hoax (and I think it is), they wouldn't want us knowing who they really are.

or

2) A lot of people are very paranoid about the internet (with good reason) and habitually use fake names.


It would be impossible to get any public records on people using fake names and public records are the only source to get such info from.

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Originally Posted by Moz

Sorry yet again if this has been said, but is it possible to see if anyone by "Amber"'s name lives in MO or even exists? This just frustrates me. If I were in the states I would want to get to the bottom of this and find out who 4crazycats and CatlessGoatMan really are.

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Originally Posted by sarahp

Thanks Hope for your beautiful words, that was well said.

I feel really sorry for CritterMom

She made a pressie for the baby and everything!! Did John ever give you an address to send it to?

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Originally Posted by lunasmom

Since all "they" if it was one person or two did was swindle us of emotions and maybe for those that had the time to donate in her name already. There is no true crime in that. You just move on from there

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Originally Posted by emily_325

Tammy has been in my thoughts this whole thread. I don't think she's been online, or at least she hasn't posted, since yesterday.

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Originally Posted by emily_325

Tammy has been in my thoughts this whole thread. I don't think she's been online, or at least she hasn't posted, since yesterday.

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