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Has she calmed down Jenny?
No more dashes through the door?
She is adorable.
No more dashes through the door?
She is adorable.
Oh poor thing. That is also the hand position for grabbing her roughly.Originally Posted by jennyranson
I am spending as much time with her as I can and she is a real lovebug. But I have noticed one thing - she hates seeing a hand approaching her, and will run. It is fine if she comes to me or if I pick her up round the tummy or starting at the back of her head - she is just terrified if the hand goes near her head to start with. Once on my lap she is fine and I can scritch her ears or head - it is the initial touch. I wonder if she has been used to being smacked around the head or other wise hurt in some way.
Poor baby! Sounds like this is the case. Have you tried it with the back of your hand facing her instead of the palm facing her? Sometimes this makes a large difference.Originally Posted by jennyranson
I am spending as much time with her as I can and she is a real lovebug. But I have noticed one thing - she hates seeing a hand approaching her, and will run. It is fine if she comes to me or if I pick her up round the tummy or starting at the back of her head - she is just terrified if the hand goes near her head to start with. Once on my lap she is fine and I can scritch her ears or head - it is the initial touch. I wonder if she has been used to being smacked around the head or other wise hurt in some way.
that's just illogical. if it's safe early, then it's safe early. shouldn't matter where they live!Originally Posted by LDG
It IS strange, isn't it? If it's for TNR, our vet will do early-age spay-neuter. But if it's for an indoor-only pet, he will only do it when their first tooth falls out (around 4 months).