Amber is gone

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John, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Amber's family and baby Kaelyn.
Amber had such a good heart and sweet soul and will be remembered with love.
 

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Originally Posted by white cat lover

John, I cannot imagine how difficult it must've been for you to post that.
Hindisght is 20/20. I really hope you get custody of Kaelyn, you will be a wonderful father! And please, don't leave us. We lost Amber, we don't want to loose you & Kaelyn, too.

Amber, please know we all loved you!
Yeah, what she said!

John thank you for sharing with us. You, Kaelyn, and Amber's family have been in my thoughts constantly since I read this. I believe you already ARE Kaelyn's Daddy! I pray things are swiftly settled.
 

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Originally Posted by CatlessGoatMan

Thanks Amber's family wants me to have Kaelyn because they know thats what Amber wanted. Aparently she had talked to her mom about it already. She told her mom that she wanted me to be the one to raise her if she couldnt herself. Her mom is such a sweetheart and is trying to help me out all she can but she's in worse shape then I am right now. The ones Im worried about is Stans family and Stan causing problems.
John you are going to be the BEST father there is! I suggest contacting an attorney once everything is settled down.
 

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omg i am so so sorry to hear this, my thoughts and prayers are with you guys. i am just in shock. i dont even know what more to say other than my deepest sympthys to yawl
 

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Oh John! Iccan't offer anything but my condolances and support. Amber was a sweet girl. I know you will be a great father for Kaelyn.
 

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Wow, I just read through this post and I am in shock. I cannot believe that she is gone...just the other day she was telling me how she was anxiusly waiting the birth of Lava Girl. She was worried about getting back into shape and she was so excited because she wanted to breastfeed her baby girl.

I am sure Amber is looking down on Lava Girl and her wonderful Daddy. Please take care of yourself, Lava Girl needs you now more than ever.
 

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I am so sorry for your loss, John, I am in shock. You will be a wonderful father to that little girl, I am just so sorry! Amber was an amazing person, we have all lost a wonderful friend
 

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I'm so sorry about Amber. I didn't really know her... or you... but what a terrible loss. I'll be thinking of you and you little girl.
 

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John - I am in shock as well just reading through this thread. My deepest heart felt condolences to you and your family. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bless your heart and bless your famly. You will be a wonderful father and Amber will be very proud of you as she watches over her family.
 

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what a shock! i haven't had a chance to read anything but your first post - but
to you from all of us!
know we're all here for you, whenever you're ready...
 

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John I'm so sorry. I just got to work and I'm crying.
You and Kaelyn will be in my thoughts and prayers.
 

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I'm sooo sorry John... I'm in total shock.. I just read this and I'm numb...


I'm sooo sorry for your loss...
 

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I just logged on and saw this post first - I'm in shock along with everyone else and tears are pouring down my face as I sit at my desk at work.

As hard as it must have been, John, I'm so glad that Amber was with you when she passed. It is good to know that the man she loved so very much was right there by her side.

I have yet to see Lava Girl's picture, but I am sure she is as beautiful a little person as Amber was and as you are - you will be a great dad, and with the help of Amber's family, I am sure she will grow up to become a wonderful woman.

My heart hurts with you and for you...I wish there was some way I could help make things better! Thank you for trusting us enough to share this with us - we loved her too, though in some ways we hardly knew her, but her spirit and fire shined through her postings, and will live on in you and your baby girl.

We are all here for you!
 

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Wow! This is last thing I expected to see on her after having been away for a little while. John......I didn't know Amber very well, but she seemed like such a sweet and fun person. I am so sorry for your loss.
 
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