Amber is gone

This is a stunning and tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm so sorry.

I cannot imagine your shock and grief. My heart goes out to you and to Amber's family.

John, I'm so sorry to hear this, I can barely get my head around it! My thoughts and prayers are with you and little sweet Kaelyn. She's a beautiful child, and you'll be a fine daddy. Peace.

I'm glad you felt a bit more comfortable enough to share more with us You are such a strong man John. We are all here for you. I am soo sorry this is happening. But i am soo happy knowing that Kaelyn has you looking after her You are the defination of a real man. I know it's gonna be hard- but please take comfort knowing that we all support and care for you and little kaelyn

Oh John that is so heartbreaking Whatever you do, don't blame yourself at all and think about what you could have done. If she had have thought it was serious she would have let you know. She had pains before, and they were cleared as nothing, so there was no reason for her to think it was any different.

If she had have thought it was something to worry about, you know she would have posted it here asking for everyone's opinion.

This sort of thing is just one of those tragic consequences of living life.

I'm glad you were there to hold her hand at the end and be there for her, and I'm glad you will be able to stay a part of her through little Lava Girl for the rest of her life.

I'm in total shock and have no idea what to say. I followed Amber's story of her pregnancy from the beginning, and though I didn't post much, I was anxiously awaiting the birth of little Lava Girl.

Please accept my heart felt sympathy. I am so very sorry.

I am just coming into this incredible deeply saddening news I am so, so sorry, oh my I just do not know what to say

Thoughts and prayers for all of you

Peace

My most profound condolences to you on your terrible loss. You and Lavagirl are in my prayers.

Rest in peace Amber.

I am so sorry. I havn't been here for that long but my heart sank when I saw this post. I dont know what else to say

Oh my god, I am so sorry - I just got home from work and read this.

I am in shock.

May you rest in peace Amber.

John - I wish you all the best for being the baby's dad - anyone can be a father, but it takes a special man to be a dad.

I certainly never expected to see news like this when i got to the office this morning.

I'm so very sorry for your loss

John, you are a GREAT man!!! Amber knew that and she also knew that you would make the perfect Dad for Kaelyn.Don't ever second guess your abilities to raise her.
Don't feel that you SHOULD have COULD have done anything either.None of us know when our time is going to be over.All we can do is love those around us to the best of our abilities and be happy.
YOU are what made Amber happy.You and the baby.
She's in Heaven now and will watch over you and Kaelyn.With her as a Guardian Angel, you and Kaelyn will be protected.
I am praying that Stan stays out of the picture and you are the one to raise Kaelyn.
You have my number, call ANYTIME!!! Or you can PM me too.
Hug that precious little girl for me.I wish I was there to wrap my arms around you also.HUGS!!!

I've only just seen this. I am so so sorry, and so upset and shocked. Amber was loved by so many, and will be badly missed. My heart goes out to you and Kaelyn and her family, I can't imagine the pain that you all must be feeling right now.

I'm so sorry to read this news this morning My condolences to Amber's family and friends.

She is only my age, she didnt deserve it!

Originally Posted by fwan

She is only my age, she didnt deserve it!

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Nobody does sweetheart We will all miss her dearly. I am sure she is watching over all of us right now.

I am shuddering all over from reading this. I can't believe it, and I am sure you can't yet either, John. One doesn't think this kind of thing can happen today, with all the medical advances we have. Sometimes Nature just brings us up short and there is nothing we can do. I am so sorry for you and for Amber's family. I know that she was so happy she found you, a little worried at first because she could not believe how good you were, and you proved yourself to her over and over. There was nothing but happiness ahead for you both, and for little Lava Girl. Kaelyn is lucky to have you and I know you will be a wonderful Dad to her, with the support of Amber's family. You may need to be very strong in the coming months if Stan tries anything, but knowing the background and your character, I am sure you will win through. My heartfelt condolences.

I can't believe it. I can't believe it. I can't believe it.

Please accept my condolences. I wish you and Kaelyn a happy, fun filled future on your little farm with the cats, dogs, and goats.

What a tragic end to such a promising life. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. And I hope everything works out the way it is supposed to for that precious little girl.