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I am so glad that you were able to verbalize some of the things that were bothering you with your husband. If it doesn't get out in the open, you will find yourself "emotionally divorced" from him long before the thing ends. There is some hope, and that is a good thing. I hope he takes your words to heart and begins to hold up his end. Tell him that sleeping on the street will not do his bad back any good. I did npt mean to be overly harsh or straight-forward, but the thought of you carrying this entire burden while he sits idly by just burns me up!

Being a survivor of financial problems, I know I NEVER want to be in that position again. If you need to talk, PM me. I've got your back on this one.
post #32 of 33
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I've decided that if I don't see real effort in the next week with him to get a job, then the ultimatums will come out. Yesterday wasn't a real good indication of his intentions because I sent him a list a mile long of stuff he had to do (calls to make, online payments, etc.), most of which he got done, and he did do some housework. We also went to the Avalanche game last night, which kinda threw a kink into things, too.

Deb, you are so right about being "emotionally divorced" before it ends. I already feel that way sometimes. I'm hoping that if we can get through this time right now, and he realizes what's going on and makes some changes, we can start to re-build the relationship we once had.
post #33 of 33
I'm glad to hear he helped you with the housework and paid some bills for you! I am keeping good thoughts coming your way that he will find a job real soon!
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