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I really need some vibes please...

post #1 of 61
Thread Starter 
I had posted a thread about my current situation but I deleted it... didn't want it floating in the internet.

So right now I'm just asking for vibes. Vibes for me and my husband and for whatever decision needs to be made, that both of us make the right one and are strong during this time.

I know the power of TCS vibes and I wish I could say "I want this" but my heart doesn't know what it wants and I don't want to be wishy-washy right now... I want so much for me to know what the right decision is and to follow through.

Sorry if I don't make any sense - I've had 4 hours of sleep, shed far too many tears and am still struggling to keep a happy face on for my students.

Thanks you guys.
post #2 of 61
Awww, Many Blessings and good vibes for you for any decision you have to make.
post #3 of 61
I saw your earlier thread

I'm sending you many, many vibes that that whatever decision you make is the right decision for you in the long run.

post #4 of 61
I'm sorry you're going through a bad time right now.
I hope that things turn out the way you want them to, or whatever is best for you.
In the meantime, lots of and {{{vibes}}} your way!
post #5 of 61
Oh sweety, whatever it is that is eating you, I hope it gets resolved. You sound in complete anguish. I am sending vibes that everything will work out
post #6 of 61
you've got al lthe vibes I have to spare Ari, like I said in the other thread, I've been through a very similar situation, so if you ever need to talk I am only a PM away
post #7 of 61
I am so very sorry you are going through a hard time right now. you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
post #8 of 61
Aw Ari! I must have missed the other thread!

*sending you both positive vibes*
post #9 of 61
Ari, you have my full }}}VIBES{{{ heading your way

I know that whatever the issue is, you will be able to come to the best decision you can about it

post #10 of 61
I thinking about you, Ari, and you definitely get all of the clarity vibes I can muster!
post #11 of 61
Keep strong, both of you, and I hope that you find the way through this.
post #12 of 61
Mega {{{{VIBES}}}} for you and your DH. I am sending all my thoughts and prayers for you, that the right decision is made for your family!
post #13 of 61
Thread Starter 
Thanks for all the support you guys... I've been feeling very alone (I think I have two people I talk to on a regular basis and one is my husband - and that has been strained lately) and now I just feel so much better, knowing you care!
post #14 of 61
Life is tough. Love is even harder I think. Whatever your problems are, there is an answer to them. I'm glad you have someone you can confide in. Even if they don't have the answers for you, it just helps to get it out and off your chest. Good luck sweets...sending you many good thoughts, prayers & best wishes for your future.

Hilda >^..^<
post #15 of 61
Mega vibes heading your way.
post #16 of 61
{{{{{vibes}}}}} and headbutts to help you through this time.
post #17 of 61
Thread Starter 
Originally Posted by valanhb View Post
I thinking about you, Ari, and you definitely get all of the clarity vibes I can muster!
Clarity... that's the word I was looking for! Thanks!
post #18 of 61
Although I don't know what your problem is at this time, I want to send you out peaceful and helpful vibes to help you with what ever decision you need to make at this time.
post #19 of 61
Good vibes going your way.
post #20 of 61
Good luck, you know we're here for ya!

Hang in there, dear. Things have a way of working out, sooner or later.
post #21 of 61
Sending you hugs and vibes, for strength, and quiet...so you can hear your heart & your soul, and the answer that is probably already there waiting to surface.
post #22 of 61
Sending prayers and hugs to you from Mississippi. I do not know what you need them for, but I am sending them anyways.

I hope everything works out for you.

post #23 of 61
Sending out make the right decision vibes your way!
post #24 of 61
Dear Ari.......I´m so sorry for your hard times....

))))))))))))))))))))))))))) (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
thinking and praying of heart so strong on you!.....
Don´t give up!...
post #25 of 61
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ari.
post #26 of 61
Thread Starter 
Here's a mini update... tho it's not really great.

My DH and I are going through a rough patch and last night we realized that we are completely different people and that maybe this marriage isn't working. Since then I've been trying to work things out and he's been acting distant. And considering that I don't even know if we *should* be together... my heart is all mixed up and his attitude isn't helping.

I know we probably both need time to figure things out but it just hurts. And, like I said earlier, I need clarity - on whether I need to be with him or on my own.

Thanks for listening and for those vibes, please keep em coming!
post #27 of 61
You are in a tough spot. Prayers that you find your way and do what is best for everyone involved.
post #28 of 61
Will say prayers for both of you.
post #29 of 61
I'm not sure what's going on- but i just want to offer some supportand let you know that you are in my prayers
post #30 of 61
I just wanted to add my {{{clarity vibes}}}. I hope you can figure this out. Just try not to rush things, OK? I know a couple who divorced only to realize they were perfect for each other & remarried.
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