Is this fair? (BF problem)

happyhendrix

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I need some advice, I have an orientation to go to for school tonight at five.
I asked my boyfriend could he take me to the train station because it gets sorta bad there at night. I did not want to leave my car there while it's dark, nor walk to my car while it's dark. He told me he does not want to, not that he can't he just does not want to.

I take this little train to school 'cause it just drops you off right there and parking there sucks. I take it all the time during the day for school. It makes me feel like he does not care about me at all.

Am I wrong?

We both have cars, and if he needs a ride anytime and I can do it I will.
 

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I don't think you're wrong at all. He should care about your safety too.
Is there someone else who could take you?
 
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No. No one else. guess I have to go by myself.


This may seem like a silly argument but it means something. My safety is the number one reason why I do not want to go!
 

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no, thats not fair.
I mean its your safety we are talking about!!!!
Tell him to get off his lazy but and help you out. If not..maybe next time he asks your for a favor you give him the same line!
 

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No! that's not very fair nor is it very nice of him


He sorta reminds me of Natalie Portman's boyfriend in the movie 'Where The Heart Is'...that kinda guy.

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Originally Posted by Hilda>^..^<

No! that's not very fair nor is it very nice of him


He sorta reminds me of Natalie Portman's boyfriend in the movie 'Where The Heart Is'...that kinda guy.

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OMG! is that the movie with the walmart baby?!

He is not that bad.
 

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Why doesnt he want to take you?

doesnt he care about your safety? if he doesnt then you should really think through about this relationship!


 

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Originally Posted by HappyHendrix

OMG! is that the movie with the walmart baby?!

He is not that bad.
Yes, that's the one! (I love that movie)

Glad to hear your boyfriend isn't THAT bad...but he should still be more thoughtful of your safety.

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Originally Posted by fwan

Why doesnt he want to take you?

doesnt he care about your safety? if he doesnt then you should really think through about this relationship!


He says it's to far, and he just does not want to take me. I do stuff for him all the darn time.
 

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I would remember that the next time that he asked for something. He should care about your safety, I think he is just being a horses butt. And you can tell him I said so too. At least we care about your safety.
 

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Originally Posted by HappyHendrix

He says it's to far, and he just does not want to take me. I do stuff for him all the darn time.
I know you said he wasn't but he sure is sounding more & more like that guy in the movie to me.

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Originally Posted by LSULOVER

I would remember that the next time that he asked for something. He should care about your safety, I think he is just being a horses butt. And you can tell him I said so too. At least we care about your safety.
Thank you! I guess you guys a bunch of wonderful people I have never met and of course myself are the only ones that care!
 

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Originally Posted by Snuzy

How far away is the train. Unless its an hour's drive, there's no excuse for not taking you.
Don't matter if it is an hours drive or not, he could take her and fart around doing something until she gets back.
 
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Originally Posted by LSULOVER

Don't matter if it is an hours drive or not, he could take her and fart around doing something until she gets back.
I know the orientation is about an hour at the most. He is just being a jerk.
 

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Originally Posted by LSULOVER

Don't matter if it is an hours drive or not, he could take her and fart around doing something until she gets back.
Thats the least he could do.
 

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Hm that's a bit rude. I know most peoples other half would help if they weren't doing anything else. Happyhendrix, if you like, i can place Cleo on your other halfs head...she has very sharp claws :p
 

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Originally Posted by HappyHendrix

I know the orientation is about an hour at the most. He is just being a jerk.
He could find something to do for an hour or so, just being a horses butt is all.
 

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Originally Posted by Dragoriana

Hm that's a bit rude. I know most peoples other half would help if they weren't doing anything else. Happyhendrix, if you like, i can place Cleo on your other halfs head...she has very sharp claws :p
I could put a "gris gris" on him
 
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