We just got into a big argument over this, he really does not care.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Ok, this is what I would do.
It might not work, but I would do it anyways.
No matter what time I got back from orientation, I would not go straight home, I would find something to do for several hours, I would not answer the cell phone if he called me or nothing. I didn't care if I had to sit in a parking lot in my car for several hours. I would not go home.
Then when I fianlly did and if he said something to me, I would just tell him that he wasn't worried about me before why worry about me now.
And he wouldn't need to ask me to do anything for him for a long time too.