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Please do and he wonders why he has bad luck sometimes...
I think I found the answer!
I think I found the answer!
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Is this fair? (BF problem)
- Thread starter happyhendrix
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Are you sure?
Maybe one that isn't real bad, want me to make him sick or have a tore up stomach?
Let me know
Uh...if that was my BF I would freak out on him. He doesn't want to take you because he doesn't FEEL like it? It doesn't matter how far it is..any one of my long term boyfriends would have driven me to my hometown which is 7 hours away if I asked them to.
If he can't do this simple thing for you, what will he do when you really need something super important? OMG I am getting mad just thinking about it...Women get stepped on WAY too often.
That is not accceptable.
I agree, my husband called me from offshore one night, and I had not checked the mail that day, so I told him I was gonna go check it, he told me to check it while he was on the line, then he told me to go inside and lock the doors.
I don't know what he thought he was gonna do if someone would have got me, he was 4 hours away from me.
But he would NEVER make me go by myself somewheres where my safety would be a concern.
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We just got into a big argument over this, he really does not care.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Im crying.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Im crying.
Oh sweety. I do think you MIGHT need to reevaluate the relationship. Couples really need to be there for eachother..if they aren't, then its not a loving relationship at all.Originally Posted by HappyHendrix
We just got into a big argument over this, he really does not care.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Im crying.
Don't cry hun..things could be alot worse.
Its got to be sad but also look at it like you realize he doesnt care about you ALL THE WAY .... then THANK GOD you know now and not when you are married with kids with him.Originally Posted by HappyHendrix
We just got into a big argument over this, he really does not care.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Im crying.
He better be glad that he is in California and I am in Mississippi, he is really beginning to make me mad here.Originally Posted by HappyHendrix
We just got into a big argument over this, he really does not care.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Im crying.
He sounds like a real jerk. I'm sorry he made you cry, I hope your kitty pounces on him in the middle of the night all claws bared.
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Ha hendrix knew I was upset. She came to me and purred.
Ok, this is what I would do.Originally Posted by HappyHendrix
We just got into a big argument over this, he really does not care.
I need to reevaluate this relationship.
Im crying.
It might not work, but I would do it anyways.
No matter what time I got back from orientation, I would not go straight home, I would find something to do for several hours, I would not answer the cell phone if he called me or nothing. I didn't care if I had to sit in a parking lot in my car for several hours. I would not go home.
Then when I fianlly did and if he said something to me, I would just tell him that he wasn't worried about me before why worry about me now.
And he wouldn't need to ask me to do anything for him for a long time too.
Originally Posted by LSULOVER
He better be glad that he is in California and I am in Mississippi, he is really beginning to make me mad here.
That would be something I'd do. But I'm rather dramatic that way. I like to get my way no matter how.
I am so sorry for you sweets. You are right...you need to think about this relationship with him. You don't want to be sitting in the same situation years from now, with the same guy, wondering 'what if' and regretting all the wasted time with a man like him when you might have been truly happy with a man who loves you and cares not only 'for' you but also 'about' you.
Good luck and take care...
Hilda >^..^<
Good luck and take care...
Hilda >^..^<
It wouldn't be like getting my way, I would just be so mad, of course he would already know that I was mad before I left, I think I call it getting even. You know what they always say about a pay back.
That is true, how long have you been with this guy?
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- #37
A year and a few months.
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- #38
Then he would think I was cheating on him.
GOOD!Originally Posted by HappyHendrix
Then he would think I was cheating on him.
Yeah, give him something to think about, and then I would probably tell him that at least the guy cared enough to give me a ride and wait on me.
