New here, hi everyone! (Sorry this is long)
I have recently adopted 2 cats (a female 9 years old and a male 8 years old) from my sister as she now has 2 kids and doesnt have time for them anymore.
They were both rescue cats.
The male cat has always been very afraid of most things and it took him longer to settle in than the female cat.
The past week the male cat has become very strange around my boyfriend (he loved my boyfriend to begin with and my boyfriend hasnt done anything differently). He started growling and hissing at him all the time. I read posts about Bachs flower enscences and bought some and starting using it and within minutes he was purring and snuggling up to my boyfriend (I have stopped using it today incase using this started this behaviour)
But then the other day, my boyfriend found him shaking and growling big time, and he even pooed and peed himself where he was standing. He later chilled out and was fine around me but continued to growl around my boyfriend.
Then last night when I was out, my boyfriend accidently dropped the broom in the kitchen and the male cat was near him and he went crazy again, he attacked the broom, then ran away and then my boyfriend tried to calm him down, he then growled, hissed and pooed and peed himself again. When I came home he was scared but came to me after a while and was fine again.
Tonight when my boyfriend has been here with me, the male cat just sits in one spot petrified, however when I was here this morning by myself, he was following me around, purring getting cuddles etc.
Any suggestions on how to stop him being so strange? Should I buy one of these comfort plug ins?
Thanks in advance
I have recently adopted 2 cats (a female 9 years old and a male 8 years old) from my sister as she now has 2 kids and doesnt have time for them anymore.
They were both rescue cats.
The male cat has always been very afraid of most things and it took him longer to settle in than the female cat.
The past week the male cat has become very strange around my boyfriend (he loved my boyfriend to begin with and my boyfriend hasnt done anything differently). He started growling and hissing at him all the time. I read posts about Bachs flower enscences and bought some and starting using it and within minutes he was purring and snuggling up to my boyfriend (I have stopped using it today incase using this started this behaviour)
But then the other day, my boyfriend found him shaking and growling big time, and he even pooed and peed himself where he was standing. He later chilled out and was fine around me but continued to growl around my boyfriend.
Then last night when I was out, my boyfriend accidently dropped the broom in the kitchen and the male cat was near him and he went crazy again, he attacked the broom, then ran away and then my boyfriend tried to calm him down, he then growled, hissed and pooed and peed himself again. When I came home he was scared but came to me after a while and was fine again.
Tonight when my boyfriend has been here with me, the male cat just sits in one spot petrified, however when I was here this morning by myself, he was following me around, purring getting cuddles etc.
Any suggestions on how to stop him being so strange? Should I buy one of these comfort plug ins?
Thanks in advance