I really think you need to talk to your DH about this, I'm so sorry you have such a witch as a MIL. IMO I dont think you should loan her money, but let her know why.
Gosh that is such a sticky situation.
Gosh that is such a sticky situation.
This is off subject but I have to say your kitties are my Cat Brats twins!Originally Posted by caterpillarpie
I really think you need to talk to your DH about this, I'm so sorry you have such a witch as a MIL. IMO I dont think you should loan her money, but let her know why.
Gosh that is such a sticky situation.
Nope, never does! And if I could move away, I would in the blink of an eyeOriginally Posted by Dusty's Mom
I don't know your personal situation, but I have to wonder, does she have any addictions - booze, drugs, gambling? If you've loaned her money before, does she ever pay you back?
Too bad you can't pick up and move about 200 miles away. That could resolve some of your problems.
I totally agree!Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
You know, you and your husband need to be on the same page.
You telling her no and him telling her yes is pointless. You guys are married and in a partnership and both need to agree on the issue.
Yes, it's his mother, but you are his wife. When he married you you became #1 woman in his life and his mother moved to #2. If he can't accept that you are his priority and that he should be siding with you, you have serious relationship issues.
He needs to grow some basketballs and start sticking up for you where she is concerned. No man worth his salt should allow his mother to treat his wife like trash.
OH they so are! Right down to the eager little faces.Originally Posted by DixieDarlin256
This is off subject but I have to say your kitties are my Cat Brats twins!
Exactly!! I never had issues like this with my MIL, but if I did I know my husband would not have allowed her to treat me that way.Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
You know, you and your husband need to be on the same page.
You telling her no and him telling her yes is pointless. You guys are married and in a partnership and both need to agree on the issue.
Yes, it's his mother, but you are his wife. When he married you you became #1 woman in his life and his mother moved to #2. If he can't accept that you are his priority and that he should be siding with you, you have serious relationship issues.
He needs to grow some basketballs and start sticking up for you where she is concerned. No man worth his salt should allow his mother to treat his wife like trash.
Originally Posted by Graciecat
I'd like to rip her face off myself and I don't even know her.
I don't know if you've seen the posts recently about Alycia and her husband, but things have been VERY VERY rocky.Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
You know, you and your husband need to be on the same page.
You telling her no and him telling her yes is pointless. You guys are married and in a partnership and both need to agree on the issue.
Yes, it's his mother, but you are his wife. When he married you you became #1 woman in his life and his mother moved to #2. If he can't accept that you are his priority and that he should be siding with you, you have serious relationship issues.
He needs to grow some basketballs and start sticking up for you where she is concerned. No man worth his salt should allow his mother to treat his wife like trash.
It means to put her in a mental instutition w/o her consent. I found out she's been in one 2 times before... from my FIL admitting her. Justice is fully aware of how she is. He's 9 and I have told him MANY times if she ever says or does anything to him or Deacon that he is to tell me ASAP!Originally Posted by StarryEyedTiGeR
I'm glad your hubby stood up to her. / I just hate that your son walked in and heard it. I'm sure he knows that somethings not right with her though. / What all does the BAker-Act entail? I'm curious? It definitely sounds like she has some major problems going on.
I asked him why he waited to say anything until I was gone. His response was "I didn't know what to say to her w/o blowing up in her face. I didn't want to stoop to her level by ranting and raving and cussing and if you were here, I would have because it makes me even more angry at her when I think of her saying she wishes you were dead. If it wasn't for you, I'd probably been dead a loooong time ago. She could care less if I died, and she's told me on more then one occasion".........Originally Posted by kluchetta
I haven't said anything, but I've been following this thread - I'm really glad he stood up for you Alycia - that's a really good sign. And I'm sorry that she's such a you-know-what!
In that case if it were me, he'd find his bags packed so he could move back home to "Mommy." I have no patience for men with "Peter Pan Syndrome" who never grow up and stay attached to the umbilical cord.Originally Posted by crittermom
I don't know if you've seen the posts recently about Alycia and her husband, but things have been VERY VERY rocky.
He is a Momma's boy and will cling to her as long as he can.