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Tristan and i have been discussing marriage and moving out one day. He works and lives with his parents, and i am looking for work and live with mine. Hes has Cleo for maybe 4 months and we both love her to bits and Charlie has been my baby for almost 9 years so he is getting on. I dont want to leave my baby behind but i dont want to put him through another move, he is sort of a scaredy cat as he has a previous owner before being taken back to the rspca aged about 4 months old. It would be safer for me to leave him with me parents where he is atm, but i couldnt stand the thought of only seeing him once a week or fortnight or less (depending on where we move and i dont drive and i should be working this year). Im so used to seeing him and cuddling him everyday, and having him on my bed asleep and pampering him. And Tristan has been worried about the same thing with Cleo. As she is blind and has adapted to his house, she should stay there because there are three other family members who could look after her and they have a big property. We dont know how wed look after both of them and settle them down if we both end up working full time. It wouldn't be fair on them.
It could be a while away, but can anyone give me advice...really stressed =(
It could be a while away, but can anyone give me advice...really stressed =(