Ok, so we got new neighbors about a month and half ago. They have 2 kids. A boy 14 and a girl 17.
The 14yr old wants to hang out and play video games and such with my 9yr old... and I let them, supervised of course.
When they are all out in the yard playing, Deacon (my 5yr old) will always come in crying saying the kid hit him or pushed him or shoved him... So I got to the point where I've had to talk to his parents about it. When I did they seemed like it wasn't a big deal. They just agreed and shrugged it off and acted like it was no big deal. Which made me MAD!
So today he comes over to play with Justice. I let Deacon go outside and play with the hopes that the kid has calmed down.
Well withen 15 mins I had to go outside and tell him to knock it off. As I was walking to my truck he starts screaming at Deacon because he was play fighting with Justice. I told him "Don't yell at him like that! If you have a problem with him, you come to ME and tell me! I am OVER you trying to "parent" him and I WILL tell your parents!" He just rolled his eyes at me and says "They're not home" I was FURIOUS!
DH told Deacon to go in the house and I said he was not allowed to be around him anymore. So then less then 5 mins later he was rough housing with Jake a little to roughly. I told him to stop and so did my other son. He just rolled his eyes at me again!!!!!!!
I told him "That's it! GO HOME"
He ignored me!
I walked over to him and got face to face and said "I told you to go home... NOW"
He got right in my face like he was going to say/do something and just walked away!
I don't know what to do now! I've talked to the mother about it and she seems like she didn't care. Should I talk to the father since he seems to be the diciplinarian of the family? Or should I just NOT let him play with the kids?
He's the type of kid that no matter what you do, he still comes around and I don't want to involve the police.
Sorry I just hate to vent!
The 14yr old wants to hang out and play video games and such with my 9yr old... and I let them, supervised of course.
When they are all out in the yard playing, Deacon (my 5yr old) will always come in crying saying the kid hit him or pushed him or shoved him... So I got to the point where I've had to talk to his parents about it. When I did they seemed like it wasn't a big deal. They just agreed and shrugged it off and acted like it was no big deal. Which made me MAD!
So today he comes over to play with Justice. I let Deacon go outside and play with the hopes that the kid has calmed down.
Well withen 15 mins I had to go outside and tell him to knock it off. As I was walking to my truck he starts screaming at Deacon because he was play fighting with Justice. I told him "Don't yell at him like that! If you have a problem with him, you come to ME and tell me! I am OVER you trying to "parent" him and I WILL tell your parents!" He just rolled his eyes at me and says "They're not home" I was FURIOUS!
DH told Deacon to go in the house and I said he was not allowed to be around him anymore. So then less then 5 mins later he was rough housing with Jake a little to roughly. I told him to stop and so did my other son. He just rolled his eyes at me again!!!!!!!
He ignored me!
He got right in my face like he was going to say/do something and just walked away!
I don't know what to do now! I've talked to the mother about it and she seems like she didn't care. Should I talk to the father since he seems to be the diciplinarian of the family? Or should I just NOT let him play with the kids?
He's the type of kid that no matter what you do, he still comes around and I don't want to involve the police.
Sorry I just hate to vent!