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Sorry guys for all the absence

post #1 of 25
Thread Starter 
It has been a very rough couple of weeks for us.
Both 4 wheelers that we got the kids have been nothing but a hassle for us and we've had to take them both back to be fixed.
But, that's NOT the rough part.
Hubby's cousin tried to commit suicide around Christmas by taking MANY nerve pills.She took 45 Zanax.She went into a coma for 31 hours.She made it though, by the grace of God.The state took her 3 kids away from her.
Then, even sadder news.On Dec. 31, we got a call about Hubby's other cousin.He was only 27 years old and they found him dead.Apparently on the 30th. after MANY months of NOT using Meth, he gave into temptation to use again and in doing so, cost him his life. He was dead for a few hours before he was found.We had to go to his viewing and it was sooooooooooooooooooo sad to see such a good looking kid..........laying in that casket.
Now for my sad news, my Brother has been missing for over 3 weeks now. He is also back into drugs and I fear is a dealer now also.No one has heard or seen him in 3 weeks.So, it has been a VERY rough time for us.
Plus, I am fastly approaching the 2 year death Anniversary for my Dad.
Maybe if things slow down, then I'll be able to get on here more often now.
I miss you all sooooooooooooooooooo much!!!
post #2 of 25
Dear God, you don't need A hug.....you need a truckload of them. My God I am so very sorry. I simply don't know what to say. I have two ears, two shoulders and two arms.....and one or all of them are yours for the asking.
post #3 of 25
I am so sorry, Tammy! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
post #4 of 25
I'm so sorry for all you are going through
post #5 of 25
Wow, it doesnt rain, it pours???? I am so sorry that you have been going through such a tough time.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
post #6 of 25
Awww Tammy I was worrying about you and where you had been....now i know. I'm soo sorry this is all happening to you right now. I'm here if you need anything
post #7 of 25
Oh dear lord you have been going through an awful time, I wish I could do anything to make it better. The only advice I can give is to say don't neglect yourself through all of this - regular meals and sleep (easier said than done I know), but please try to keep yourself strong and healthy.
post #8 of 25
Goodness what A LOT to be going through right now. You know we all are here for you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, Tammy.
post #9 of 25
Oh no! Im so sorry Tammy! You have my number and you're welcome to use it ANYTIME!
post #10 of 25
Oh my! All I have to offer is & hugs to your whole family!
post #11 of 25
OMG you are going through such a rough time right now..How awful..I hope you find your brother, I am praying for that
post #12 of 25
I am so sorry for all these troubles. I hope things get better soon.
post #13 of 25
Thread Starter 
Thank you all VERY much!!! You don't know how much the support and prayers mean to us.
Alycia, maybe in a day or two I'll call. Not really able to talk, if you know what I mean.
I promise to TRY and get back on here as soon as things calm down.
Hugs to ALL....................you're a wonderful group of friends!!
post #14 of 25
I hope 2007 is a better year for you and your entire family.
post #15 of 25
AHHH! thats terrible!!!!!! so sorry...
post #16 of 25
OMG Tammy, what a nightmare! I hope this year is better for you. Just know that we are all here for you!
post #17 of 25
Oh heck what rotten things to have to deal with at this time of year - which I know sounds stupid, cos it must be real hard any ANY time of year, but during the Christmas holidays
My thoughts are with you, it must be so hard to think about "where to start" . Keep yourself well & strong and you know theres always plenty of shoulders to lean on here at TCS
post #18 of 25
You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #19 of 25
I don't know what to say hun exept that I hope it all works out soon I'm just sending you heap's of Love , Hug's & Kisses
post #20 of 25
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
post #21 of 25
I´m so sorry for the hard times....

Hola y bienvenido de nuevo a TCS!..
(Translate: Hi and Welcome back to TCS!!!...........)

See you around!
post #22 of 25
All I know to offer is hugs and prayers
post #23 of 25
Tammy, I will say a few prayers for you, your family and especially your brother.
post #24 of 25
Thread Starter 
Thanks again everyone!!!
I guess I should give you all a little background info on my Brother.Most of you must be thinking "how can she seem so calm when he is missing?" The Summer that Dad died, he left and wasn't seen/heard from in over 6 months.This is his way of life I guess is the best way to describe him.During that time, he lived on the streets in Detroit Michigan and was a professional drug dealer and delt with "women of the professional ADULT world".So, this really is nothing new for him to do. But what makes this time worse is, he was just served his divorce papers and then he made a few comments about ending his life and such.And since then, no one has seen or heard from him.So, we all are on standby once again and to be honest, this is getting VERY old for us.
I'm doing better today from all the deaths/close calls.But, it just hits home as I said that on Jan. 28 marks 2 years for Dad's death.
I will be back on more now as much as I can.
thanks again to ALL!!!
post #25 of 25
Just let me know if you need anything Tammy. I'm on the other side of the country but I'm a good listener.
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