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It has been a very rough couple of weeks for us.

Both 4 wheelers that we got the kids have been nothing but a hassle for us and we've had to take them both back to be fixed.
But, that's NOT the rough part.
Hubby's cousin tried to commit suicide around Christmas by taking MANY nerve pills.She took 45 Zanax.She went into a coma for 31 hours.She made it though, by the grace of God.The state took her 3 kids away from her.
Then, even sadder news.On Dec. 31, we got a call about Hubby's other cousin.He was only 27 years old and they found him dead.Apparently on the 30th. after MANY months of NOT using Meth, he gave into temptation to use again and in doing so, cost him his life.
He was dead for a few hours before he was found.We had to go to his viewing and it was sooooooooooooooooooo sad to see such a good looking kid..........laying in that casket.
Now for my sad news, my Brother has been missing for over 3 weeks now.
He is also back into drugs and I fear is a dealer now also.No one has heard or seen him in 3 weeks.So, it has been a VERY rough time for us.
Plus, I am fastly approaching the 2 year death Anniversary for my Dad.

Maybe if things slow down, then I'll be able to get on here more often now.
I miss you all sooooooooooooooooooo much!!!
 

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Dear God, you don't need A hug.....you need a truckload of them. My God I am so very sorry. I simply don't know what to say. I have two ears, two shoulders and two arms.....and one or all of them are yours for the asking.
 

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I am so sorry, Tammy!
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
 

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Wow, it doesnt rain, it pours???? I am so sorry that you have been going through such a tough time.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
 

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Awww Tammy I was worrying about you and where you had been....now i know. I'm soo sorry this is all happening to you right now. I'm here if you need anything
 

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Oh dear lord you have been going through an awful time, I wish I could do anything to make it better. The only advice I can give is to say don't neglect yourself through all of this - regular meals and sleep (easier said than done I know), but please try to keep yourself strong and healthy.
 

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Goodness what A LOT to be going through right now. You know we all are here for you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, Tammy.
 

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OMG you are going through such a rough time right now..How awful..I hope you find your brother, I am praying for that
 
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Thank you all VERY much!!! You don't know how much the support and prayers mean to us.
Alycia, maybe in a day or two I'll call. Not really able to talk, if you know what I mean.
I promise to TRY and get back on here as soon as things calm down.
Hugs to ALL....................you're a wonderful group of friends!!
 

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I hope 2007 is a better year for you and your entire family.
 

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OMG Tammy, what a nightmare! I hope this year is better for you. Just know that we are all here for you!
 

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Oh heck what rotten things to have to deal with at this time of year - which I know sounds stupid, cos it must be real hard any ANY time of year, but during the Christmas holidays

My thoughts are with you, it must be so hard to think about "where to start" . Keep yourself well & strong and you know theres always plenty of shoulders to lean on here at TCS
 
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