So I was happily helping with a TNR for 9 ferals...........the project leader and I got on real well and we were getting all sorts of fund-raising things going on........traps had arrived and we had a meeting to sort out who was going to do what on "the trap night"
At the meeting, project leaders DH is at the meeting - fine - no worries, but gets all snotty with me - I was get too involved, it wasnt "my baby" all sorts of "who did I think I was ...blah, blah...............
I was really shocked.....
project leader just sat back and didnt stick up for me or try and stop him. I am a very motivated person and do like to get stuck in, offer suggestions, ideas etc.............so I think my over enthusiam has sort of peed him off............I apologised, said I wasnt purposely trying to step on anyones toes, and I thought that at much help as possible was needed .............project leaders DH wasnt happy with that and basically said they didnt need my help .........I felt very isolated, didnt really know what to say next
project leader didnt offer any comment or try to calm the situation down
So I and said my apologies (again) and left
I feel so let down, I would still like to be involved but dont know what to do next........any thoughts
At the meeting, project leaders DH is at the meeting - fine - no worries, but gets all snotty with me - I was get too involved, it wasnt "my baby" all sorts of "who did I think I was ...blah, blah...............
I was really shocked.....
I feel so let down, I would still like to be involved but dont know what to do next........any thoughts