Alley is dying

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My heart goes out to you and your beloved Alley. ((((hugs))))
 

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oh lots of strong positive vibes whizzing your way to help you all through the forthcoming days...........
She is being loved by all and you have done the best for her, every step of the way. Bless Little Alley and may the angels take her safely to her new resting place
 

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Very sorry headbuts and sad, tearful licks from KiitenKiya's Clan. We all feel so helpless at a time like this.
 
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The more I read about this disease the worse it sounds. I read several articles that said "it is a horrible way for a cat to die" and that she would be in severe pain in the end.

That's the last thing I want for my baby.

I have called my brother and he agreed to take her to the vet in the morning and have her put down. Then he will bring her home and bury her. This was the hardest decision I have ever made, and I'm still questioning myself, hoping its the right thing. That part of me that doesn't want to let her go, hesitates because what if she gets better?? But she won't. The vet said she won't and all the articles say she won't. So the only thing I can do for her, is to end it quickly in the morning, and not let her suffer a terrible time in the end.

I overnighted her some treats yesterday and she got them today and ate them. I hope she knows they were from me.

I miss her so much.
 

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I am so sorry about your sweet baby.

You are doing the right thing and I know how hard the decision is to make.

Sending lots of good vibes to you and your family and peaceful crossing vibes to your baby.

 

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You are making this decision from love.
Bless you both.
 

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What an awful situation for you to be in. I am sending many prayers that you will be okay after making this horrible decision. I know it must be so hard to feel like the life of your cat rests in your hands.

Many prayers to you and your precious kitty.
 

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I am so very sorry. How hard it must be to have to make this decision, but you are letting her go peacefully. (((((( Hugs))))))
 

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You poor thing; making that decision is one of the hardest things a pet lover will ever do. I'm sure Alley knows you're thinking about her. I wish I had some magical words of wisdom and comfort for you. Please don't second-guess yourself; you're armed with the info you need to make the right decison.
I wish I could give you a big reassuring hug, and tell you how sorry I am.
 

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I have no doubt she knew those treats were from you. She knows how much you love her and you are making such an unselfish decision here. You are putting Alley infront of everything - thats unconditional love right there!
Be gentle with yourself at this time. Know that we are all here for you right now and our heart's weep with you. Its never an easy decision but its the right one. Your letting her cross to the bridge with dignity
 

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I am so sorry for your little Alley. My heart goes out to you. She knows she is loved. Cats always know. She will be waiting for you at the end of the rainbow.
 

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just checking in................you have made the most difficult decision but you have done it out of love and respect for your precious Alley
she can rest in peace and you will know that she had no suffering

She will have new fur-friends and the love that you send will make her purr for you forever
 

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They do not leave you. I believe that their spirits stay with you forever. Peace to Alley, and to you as well.
 

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Your kitty knows how loved she is. I can't imagine how hard this is on you and your family, but I echo the sentiments of the others: you're doing the right thing for her.

I am so, so, sorry. I wish there was some way we could ease your pain.

 

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I am so sorry to read this. I hope that she passes quietly. I'm so sorry you are far away .
 
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