Well today(it's stll the 23rd as I write this) is my 20th birthday. I decided to be spend thanksgiving with my Boyfriend and his mom this year.
My family practically berated me constantly because I was not going to be there. They are manipulative and want they want, they wanted Jeff his mom and myself all to come to their thanksgiving. NO WAY would that happen.
My mother has not met Jeff yet, IMO she can wait. He hates the way she treats me and is in no rush to meet her anyway. He really does not like how she treats me. She has said some really mean things about him and has not even met him yet.
So I am at his moms house having a great time, we played scrabble (I lost!) I get three voicemails,here I am thinking they are family wishing me a happy birthday. They are all of family yelling at me how my mom is crying and how I hurt her and how I am riduculous.
My mom was/is verbally abusive to me most of my life. I dont get along with her that much at all.
I just feel like crap, Jeff wishes there was something he can do. I just bawled. A wonderful day ruined because of them. I had a secret feeling they were going to do this.
I am in therapy because of them. I just don't know what else to do. I am at my wits end.
Am I in the wrong? sorry had to vent.