So I need some advice. I have this guy friend i have known for over two years, the whole time we have known eachother i have had a boyfriend, about a month ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I started hanging out with my guy friend b/c i decided i needed a life since i never go out, i have a lot of fun with him, and i feel like in just this month i have totally changed, for the good. I feel confident,happy,and i feel free, like i can do whatever i want, i love it!
So anyway I have always thought that my guy friend kinda liked me but i never thought i was his type, he always had negative things to say to me, and i kinda got annoyed, but once we started hanging out a lot that negativity went away, and i have more fun then i ever did, i look forward to hanging out with him and I actually kinda miss him when i dont see him, and before i never did. He also treats me like a princess, which i never have experianced before, he takes me to dinner and pays, he takes us both to get manicure pedicures and pays! Its just amazing to me cause in every relationship i have ever been in im suporting the guy or paying for everything. I guess this guy makes me feel good, and makes me feel taken care of.
This guy is so not my type, physically. But other then that we have everything in commen, and have so much fun together. About a week ago we both got drunk and went out with friends, one thing led to another and I guess you can say we became more then friends. Nothing has happened since but i have seen him everyday since then. Im suppose to see him tonight. I know he likes me, he told me, well not that he likes me but he has been saying things so i know he does. Its kinda weird to me, Im so confused. I dont know if i should say anything to him, im thinking we should talk before anything happens agian, but at the same time im not sure if he just wants to hangout and have fun or if he wants to date me. He calls me all the time and if i were to assume, i would think he wants to date me.
Its just so weird taking a strictly platonic relationship to the next level, but he treats me like no other guy has. Im not sure if thats what i like or if i like him, does that make sense? Im so confused b/c he really isnt my type physically, but sometimes i find myself attracted to him.
I normally like tall athletic guys and he is the oppisite. But i cant deny these feelings. I dont know what to do, say something and talk to him, or just see what happens?
Ive never had a friend that turned into something more. Part of me wonders if this is meant to be and part wonders if im just rebounding, but then agian i broke up with the ex and i had wanted to for the longest time.
What should i do?
So anyway I have always thought that my guy friend kinda liked me but i never thought i was his type, he always had negative things to say to me, and i kinda got annoyed, but once we started hanging out a lot that negativity went away, and i have more fun then i ever did, i look forward to hanging out with him and I actually kinda miss him when i dont see him, and before i never did. He also treats me like a princess, which i never have experianced before, he takes me to dinner and pays, he takes us both to get manicure pedicures and pays! Its just amazing to me cause in every relationship i have ever been in im suporting the guy or paying for everything. I guess this guy makes me feel good, and makes me feel taken care of.
This guy is so not my type, physically. But other then that we have everything in commen, and have so much fun together. About a week ago we both got drunk and went out with friends, one thing led to another and I guess you can say we became more then friends. Nothing has happened since but i have seen him everyday since then. Im suppose to see him tonight. I know he likes me, he told me, well not that he likes me but he has been saying things so i know he does. Its kinda weird to me, Im so confused. I dont know if i should say anything to him, im thinking we should talk before anything happens agian, but at the same time im not sure if he just wants to hangout and have fun or if he wants to date me. He calls me all the time and if i were to assume, i would think he wants to date me.
Its just so weird taking a strictly platonic relationship to the next level, but he treats me like no other guy has. Im not sure if thats what i like or if i like him, does that make sense? Im so confused b/c he really isnt my type physically, but sometimes i find myself attracted to him.
I normally like tall athletic guys and he is the oppisite. But i cant deny these feelings. I dont know what to do, say something and talk to him, or just see what happens?
Ive never had a friend that turned into something more. Part of me wonders if this is meant to be and part wonders if im just rebounding, but then agian i broke up with the ex and i had wanted to for the longest time.
What should i do?