I am so glad that I found this site. We have two kitty's Max & Mollie, they are brother & sister, and short haired and black, they were abandoned by their mom, and were rescued and that is how I got them. My husband & I just love them to bits.
Our one concern is Mollie she just does not like affection, I mean everything is on her terms and I know that that's the way it is w/a cat, but when we pick her up she pushes herself away from us, like she is afraid. I talk to her all the time and tell her we will never hurt her, and that we are only hugging her for a second, but she does not want that sort of attention. Max love's it, he's my cuddle cat!
I just feel that she was traumatized early on, and my hope is that if I just keep talking to her she may feel more secure w/us. They are inside cats.
We had a Big orange long hair boy cat, Ginger, He got very sick and we had to let him go, it crushed me & my husband. Ginger was an outside/inside cat and we decided that it is more safer to keep them inside. He was my husbands first pet! Can you imagine a 48 yr old who never had a pet, so it was important to get another cat for the both of us, and I always wanted two kittys. Such entertainment!
If anyone has any ideas on how I can make Mollie feel more secure and not mind a cuddle here & there we would love to hear from you.
Great Web Site!!
Our one concern is Mollie she just does not like affection, I mean everything is on her terms and I know that that's the way it is w/a cat, but when we pick her up she pushes herself away from us, like she is afraid. I talk to her all the time and tell her we will never hurt her, and that we are only hugging her for a second, but she does not want that sort of attention. Max love's it, he's my cuddle cat!
I just feel that she was traumatized early on, and my hope is that if I just keep talking to her she may feel more secure w/us. They are inside cats.
We had a Big orange long hair boy cat, Ginger, He got very sick and we had to let him go, it crushed me & my husband. Ginger was an outside/inside cat and we decided that it is more safer to keep them inside. He was my husbands first pet! Can you imagine a 48 yr old who never had a pet, so it was important to get another cat for the both of us, and I always wanted two kittys. Such entertainment!
If anyone has any ideas on how I can make Mollie feel more secure and not mind a cuddle here & there we would love to hear from you.
Great Web Site!!