Hello everyone. I just found this forum, and I looked to see if this was covered in the aggressive cat behavior thread, but I didn't find exactly what I was looking for. My cat is nearly 8 months old. We had been bonding nicely, and then I went to India in September for 2 weeks, giving him to a friend. When I got back, he started doing this thing that he never did before--out of nowhere, his ears flatten back, his pupil dilate, and he meows at me, not in an aggressive way, but in a "you killed everyone i love" kind of way. I thought this was somewhat different from the aggression that was outlined in other threads. So, I thought he was pissed off at me for leaving him for 2 weeks, and bought him lots of toys and tasty treats, and even a leash to take him outside and get rid of some excess energy. It stopped for maybe a week, but now he's doing it again at even more random times, although less intense and frequent than before (like, say, 7 this morning while I'm getting ready for work.) It really makes me feel like I've done something horrible, as he looks really pathetic and sad when he's doing it. What am I doing??
This might be unrelated, but whenever I come home he's usually waiting at the door, as he can hear me coming. I would always pick him up to give him a hello hug, which he used to be fine with, but now he absolutely hates being picked up. He was always a bit aggressive before, but lately he's been taking lots of liberties...
Any suggestions guys?
This might be unrelated, but whenever I come home he's usually waiting at the door, as he can hear me coming. I would always pick him up to give him a hello hug, which he used to be fine with, but now he absolutely hates being picked up. He was always a bit aggressive before, but lately he's been taking lots of liberties...
Any suggestions guys?