thank you for the advice,
i have been playing with one then going down and talking to heyu, who now want come up here, cause she acts scared, but i remember, it took her over a month before she even let me touch her. The other 2 are already sticking there paws under the door and meowing like crazy...they want to see the other cat, which is not allowed yet.
i just feel bad of cause heyu is acting all scared it has taken a long time to get heyu to trust me.
by the way, the kitty is he, and its a dark brown with black strips,,
and already sounds like he is making a in the bed room