I was just curious as to what is the 'best' age for spaying? My girl kitten is almost 14 weeks old, so 3 1/2 months, how soon should i schedule her? Spays have to be older than neuters, don't they? Since it's a more difficult surgery/recovery? I have an adult female who is spayed, but she's 10 and I haven't had to deal with getting a cat spayed for 8 years.