I know nobody can answer this without knowing her background, which unfortunately don't know either, but here goes...
I'm trying to figure out my baby Lily. She's about 6-7 months old now and a scaredy cat. With the help of Feliway she has settled down a lot, but it's the places she's scared which I think is strange.
If we're lying on a bed (our bed, or the bed in our spare room), she's miss love bug. Snuggly, cuddly, meows at us until we pat her, and then mews and purrs contentedly while we give her pats.
Away from the bed though, she runs in fear when we try to pat her. She's ok in our bedroom, and will generally let us pat her when she's in there, but still often freaks out when we go near her.
Anywhere else in the house, she'll generally run when you go near her. If she's sleeping and we approach her slowly and quietly, she'll let us pat her, and enjoy it. If she's running away from us, and we manage to get hand on her back, she'll stop, and purr and remember that she likes pats, and stay while I give her attention.
Apparently she'd travelled about 30 miles under the hood of a car when the car owner found her dehydrated and scared to death when they got to their destination.
I chose her because they weren't taking her out of her cage at the shelter to play in the play area because it was a busy Saturday and too scared, but when I put my hand in to pat her, she purred and rubbed against me, then came to the front of the cage cautiously to get more pats. She had that look of fear in her eyes, yet she trusted me to give her pats. I fell for her immediately.
It's just so weird that she completely trusts us when she's on the bed, but so scared the rest of the time. She plays happily with the other kitties, and generally seems pretty happy otherwise, but I can't think of what could have possibly happened to her when she was little to make her like this. Does anyone have any ideas to the possible cause of this behaviour? We got her at about 3 months old from the local shelter.
I'm trying to figure out my baby Lily. She's about 6-7 months old now and a scaredy cat. With the help of Feliway she has settled down a lot, but it's the places she's scared which I think is strange.
If we're lying on a bed (our bed, or the bed in our spare room), she's miss love bug. Snuggly, cuddly, meows at us until we pat her, and then mews and purrs contentedly while we give her pats.
Away from the bed though, she runs in fear when we try to pat her. She's ok in our bedroom, and will generally let us pat her when she's in there, but still often freaks out when we go near her.
Anywhere else in the house, she'll generally run when you go near her. If she's sleeping and we approach her slowly and quietly, she'll let us pat her, and enjoy it. If she's running away from us, and we manage to get hand on her back, she'll stop, and purr and remember that she likes pats, and stay while I give her attention.
Apparently she'd travelled about 30 miles under the hood of a car when the car owner found her dehydrated and scared to death when they got to their destination.
I chose her because they weren't taking her out of her cage at the shelter to play in the play area because it was a busy Saturday and too scared, but when I put my hand in to pat her, she purred and rubbed against me, then came to the front of the cage cautiously to get more pats. She had that look of fear in her eyes, yet she trusted me to give her pats. I fell for her immediately.
It's just so weird that she completely trusts us when she's on the bed, but so scared the rest of the time. She plays happily with the other kitties, and generally seems pretty happy otherwise, but I can't think of what could have possibly happened to her when she was little to make her like this. Does anyone have any ideas to the possible cause of this behaviour? We got her at about 3 months old from the local shelter.