My Nathan is Terminal :(

I'm so sorry. I too have had to make this decision.It is the hardest decision to have to make.Looking back I now realize that it was more for me I could not let go even though it was time. I knew in my head it was time but my heart said no! From what you are describing its time for you to muster up the strength and love to let go. Being able to let Nathan pass over the rainbow bridge is your final act of love for him. Hugs for you.

I am so sorry to hear about Nathan. I have been there. Six years ago my Tigger was diagnosed with a tumor on his heart. I was devastated, there was nothing I could do, I felt so helpless so I totally understand how you feel and what you are going through. I watched as Tigger's breathing became worse and worse and I felt so sad and guilty keeping him alive because I simply could not let him go. He slowly stopped eating and the vet gave him shots and medicine to help take the fluid out of his lungs. Slowly but surely I saw he was getting worse and when he came out of his litterbox and just fell on his tummy, I knew it was time, there was nothing else we could do. Six years have past and I still get very upset and cry when I think about him because he was just the best little guy. It is not an easy thing to do and I wish live didn't bring us these hardships.

You will know when Nathan is ready to go...he will let you know and he will understand that Mommy is doing this for him. My thoughts and prayers are with during this hard time. Please know we are hear to listen and help.
Susan

I'm sorry your cat is so ill It's not an easy decision to make as to when to pts. I think that deep down you will know when it's time. Try to think of it as a final gift you can give him rather than something bad. For me the time would be when he was in pain or obvious discomfort and no longer enjoying normal, everyday activities. It isn't easy to know when a cat is in pain, but when you know an individual well you can usually tell if they're uncomfortable. In the meantime treasure every moment you have with him and try not to dwell too much on the future, although I realise that's easier said than done.

You all are really amazing!! Thank you! And my heart goes out to all of you who have lost your bestest friends- Hugs and headbutts all around.

I just spoke to the vet and she said to give it a couple of days. That he could just be mad at me for leaving him at the vet alone (I had to) when he had his ultrasound. She said it's common. (And he has always been the type of cat to talk back and give you sass) Just to keep trying to feed him whatever he wants. If he doesn't snap out of this funk in a couple of days- she said then I need to weight the options- well you know...

My thoughts will be with you and your beloved Nathen...

You and Nathan are in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm sorry that Nathan is so ill, and that you're faced with such a tough decision. Sadly, it's one that many of us have had to, or will have to, make at some point. I, too, think Nathan will tell you when it's time. May his crossing be peaceful, and may your happy memories of him give you solace.

It is possibly one of the hardest decisions to make

I'm sure that Nathan will let you know when it's time

My thoughts and heart go out to you and your sweet boy, Nathan!

One more time- Thank you all for you kind words. I am done with this thread. It makes me sad to think of Naters as terminal. I won't give up on him yet. He had a really good day- yes he slept for most of it- but we found a magic elixer today- TUNA!!!!! He is so responsive to it. He isn't down yet!!!! I know it's not a cure- but knowing he can still get happy means we can't give up yet! I will still be here sending good vibes to all who need it. But this is not how I want to talk to you wonderful folks- so I will start a new thread when we need some happy vibes. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU to all of you! I think your thoughts and prayers helped!

I think that is great - give him everything he likes and spoil him as much as you can. Good luck with him.

I agree with Jenny Melanie, you give that baby anything he wants as long as he's eating Keep us updated though, and maybe put a few pictures of Nathan in Fur pictures so we can see what this little boy looks like

Melanie, I think you're doing a wonderful thing for your special boy, Nathan! Know that our thoughts will remain with you both and I'm sure you'll have the most wonderful time together!

I'm glad to hear that Nathan has perked up a bit!

Why don't you go introduce yourself in New Cats on the Block? As Susan mentioned, we would love to see pictures of Nathan.

Melanie, after reading your last post I got the impression you would like this thread closed and that you will open a new one if and when you feel you need to. I am going to close this thread on that note and if I am being too hasty or have read you wrong, then let me know and I'll straighten it out.