Hi all,
I think I just need to get some thoughts out of my head, and perhaps some reassurance.
As some of you may know, my sister and I rescued a litter of 5 black and white beautiful week old kittens. It's been a few weeks now, and they're growing like weeds. The time for us to hand them over to the SPCA is comming closer and closer and it's a bitter sweet experience, since you're tired and frusterated half the time, but know you'll miss them as soon as they're gone.
I currently have a 2 year old, very social cat named Chester. He and I will be moving in January to start school and our adult lives together. Problem is that Chester is so social that I know he'll be pretty darn upset if I'm gone long hours and he's alone. Also, he's grown up in a house with other cats and loves loves loves to play and be with them. I'm concerned that Chester will develop behavioural problems and become depressed if he's alone. Leaving him behind is not an option. I've also found an appartment that accepts animals.
So, a number of months ago, I decided that I was going to get him a little sister or brother when the time came so as to add to our loving household. The innital idea was to move first, but then these little guys came into our lives. One of them in particular is sooo sweet and cuddily and wonderful that I have decided to keep her. I figure that it only makes sense to keep one of the kittens, rather than add to the shelters (especially since ours just burnt down so the closest shelters are feeling much stress). I can afford to keep her and get her shots and fixed and all of that important stuff.
I don't know why exactly, but I'm feeling anxiety over the kitten. It could be that I'm just really really tired (which I am), feeling stretched too thin with the kittens (which I am), or am just over worrying it (which I tend to do). Further still, my dad doesn't understand the connection you get when you bottle feed kittens and is thinking of the practical side of not wanting to move 2 cats. When I hold her it's so wonderful and I really think that we could make each others lives better, but what's with the stress?
Thanks for listening, I'm already starting to feel better.
Jess
I think I just need to get some thoughts out of my head, and perhaps some reassurance.
As some of you may know, my sister and I rescued a litter of 5 black and white beautiful week old kittens. It's been a few weeks now, and they're growing like weeds. The time for us to hand them over to the SPCA is comming closer and closer and it's a bitter sweet experience, since you're tired and frusterated half the time, but know you'll miss them as soon as they're gone.
I currently have a 2 year old, very social cat named Chester. He and I will be moving in January to start school and our adult lives together. Problem is that Chester is so social that I know he'll be pretty darn upset if I'm gone long hours and he's alone. Also, he's grown up in a house with other cats and loves loves loves to play and be with them. I'm concerned that Chester will develop behavioural problems and become depressed if he's alone. Leaving him behind is not an option. I've also found an appartment that accepts animals.
So, a number of months ago, I decided that I was going to get him a little sister or brother when the time came so as to add to our loving household. The innital idea was to move first, but then these little guys came into our lives. One of them in particular is sooo sweet and cuddily and wonderful that I have decided to keep her. I figure that it only makes sense to keep one of the kittens, rather than add to the shelters (especially since ours just burnt down so the closest shelters are feeling much stress). I can afford to keep her and get her shots and fixed and all of that important stuff.
I don't know why exactly, but I'm feeling anxiety over the kitten. It could be that I'm just really really tired (which I am), feeling stretched too thin with the kittens (which I am), or am just over worrying it (which I tend to do). Further still, my dad doesn't understand the connection you get when you bottle feed kittens and is thinking of the practical side of not wanting to move 2 cats. When I hold her it's so wonderful and I really think that we could make each others lives better, but what's with the stress?
Thanks for listening, I'm already starting to feel better.
Jess