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We've had a cat for nearly a year now. He's a desexed male, part Bengal, quite shy but very playful. He's indoor only and hasn't had much to do with other cats other than meeting some at the vet. We got him as a kitten.
On Monday we got a second cat. She's a desexed female who is somewhere between 12 and 18 months. She's been through hell. She was found with two huge gaping wounds (most likely from a bite) on her side, anaemic and weighing just under 2kg despite being an adult. She's put on one kilogram in the three weeks since, her wounds are healing well and she's no longer anaemic. A pet rescue agency had her and our normal vet was looking after her.
She's...wow. She's tiny - we keep feeling like we're going to break her when we touch her. She's been kept mostly in a spare bedroom while our first cat (Tigi) has the run of the rest of our flat. They've met a few times, always under close supervision. They go from hissing and growling to just staring or sniffing at each other. Tigi is a real fraidy cat and Bella (the ex-stray) seems very scared of him and very aggressive.
We know it will take time for them to hopefully get along. Any tips would be great in that department but we're thinking that if we're careful with them things will work out OK. Still - tips are good! I've read almost anything I can think of about introducing cats but things aren't going perfectly (not a surprise when the cats haven't read what they're supposed to do!
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Healthwise she's OK. We've had a lot of health problems with Tigi so we're used to looking after wounds and getting a cat back to full health. She's eating very well, drinking well and hopefully putting on more weight.
She doesn't trust anyone. Given what the poor girl has been through I'm not surprised. She'll let us pat her for a little and seems to adore the attention, then will suddenly get very scared and bite, hiss or growl. She seems to stay under the bed if one of us isn't in the room though and will only eat if one of us is there. She's very ill at ease if she's picked up or if she sits on someone's knee. If you touch her neck she gets very scared although she doesn't mind her side (where her wound is) being touched.
Any tips? We're very keen for her to be at home with us, especially given the rescue had a lot of trouble finding a home for her given her history. I'm guessing that with time she'll see we don't want to hurt her, that we're giving her food, shelter and safety and that this is her home. Anything we can do to speed that up would be great.
On Monday we got a second cat. She's a desexed female who is somewhere between 12 and 18 months. She's been through hell. She was found with two huge gaping wounds (most likely from a bite) on her side, anaemic and weighing just under 2kg despite being an adult. She's put on one kilogram in the three weeks since, her wounds are healing well and she's no longer anaemic. A pet rescue agency had her and our normal vet was looking after her.
She's...wow. She's tiny - we keep feeling like we're going to break her when we touch her. She's been kept mostly in a spare bedroom while our first cat (Tigi) has the run of the rest of our flat. They've met a few times, always under close supervision. They go from hissing and growling to just staring or sniffing at each other. Tigi is a real fraidy cat and Bella (the ex-stray) seems very scared of him and very aggressive.
We know it will take time for them to hopefully get along. Any tips would be great in that department but we're thinking that if we're careful with them things will work out OK. Still - tips are good! I've read almost anything I can think of about introducing cats but things aren't going perfectly (not a surprise when the cats haven't read what they're supposed to do!
Healthwise she's OK. We've had a lot of health problems with Tigi so we're used to looking after wounds and getting a cat back to full health. She's eating very well, drinking well and hopefully putting on more weight.
She doesn't trust anyone. Given what the poor girl has been through I'm not surprised. She'll let us pat her for a little and seems to adore the attention, then will suddenly get very scared and bite, hiss or growl. She seems to stay under the bed if one of us isn't in the room though and will only eat if one of us is there. She's very ill at ease if she's picked up or if she sits on someone's knee. If you touch her neck she gets very scared although she doesn't mind her side (where her wound is) being touched.
Any tips? We're very keen for her to be at home with us, especially given the rescue had a lot of trouble finding a home for her given her history. I'm guessing that with time she'll see we don't want to hurt her, that we're giving her food, shelter and safety and that this is her home. Anything we can do to speed that up would be great.