Ever have them times where eveything seems to be going great and then out of now where something comes and kicks the chair right out from under you so to speek?
I have been having that kind of time lately. Me and my mother never really seen eye to eye. She has done alot of things to hurt the family and I was really trying to be the one who forgives her and let the past be the past and now she has gone and stired up the pot again.
I feel like i am living on a JERRY SPRINGER SHOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok this is too weird, Ok my sister got married and they were going to have a baby. Well we had all went camping and my sister started having some pains I went to look for my mom and my sisters hubby but nowhere to be found so i rushed my sister back home and called my grandmother who is a nurse. And she came rightover. Well it was too late my sister had lost the baby and still no mom or sisters hubby to be found. My sister was off to the hospital and i went on a search to find the rest of them. 3 hours later they show up finally. I try to explain what is going on and they just give me a look like they could care less. I knew something weird was going on. So i sat them down and began questions one after another until the truth had come out. OH THE UNSPEEKABLE THE WORST THING A MOTHER COULD DO TO HER DAUGHTER . She had stole her husband. So now i had to be the one to tell my sister cuz my mother and my sister husband sais they were not telling her. So i waited a few days until my sister had time to deal with the hospital and lossing a baby. Hard enough to go threw that on top of everything else i though, When i did tell her about what was going on She did not believe me. She hated me infact. and they went on with there lives like nothing happened. and the spilt 3 months later and my sister didnt speel to me for 3 months. My sister had come to terms with what was going on sometimes the heart just cant see what is in front of you or just dont want to believe it. Anyway some time passed and my sister started talking to my mother again and i did too. But over the past year she just keeps making up stories and lies to get attention. She even can to us and said she was dieing witch we all broke down until we found out it was not true. My sister no longer talks to my mother witch i really dont blame her i know she has been hurt alot. But i tried to forgive my mom and move forward again but i just cant do it anymore. Now my mother is spilting with the man that see stole from my sister, witch they split up every 3 months cuz they just cant seem to stop cheating on eachother. And on top of that my mom wants to adopt a baby just because it reminds her of my sisters baby how weird it that. (my sister found a nice man now and is married and has 2 kids that are adorable i might add.) But dont this just seem like she really wants my sisters life. She seems to have to do everything she does or wants whatever she has. I have 2 little boys myself and i dont want them growing up thinking that is how life is to be and that kind of actions are ok. My kids dont see my mom that often. And if they do they are never alone with her you just never know what is going to come out her mouth. She like to use the kids for show and tell more than anything and if noone is around then she dont want to play grandma and she asked if the kids could call her by her name cuz she dont think she is old enough to be grandma. She is 43 and thinks she is 16 still. She even tried to by a little sports car a orange one with racing strips haha. I just really think it is time to just let go even though she is my mother would that be wrong of me to cut her out of my life? Am i doing the right thing? It just hurts so much to know she will never really be a grandma to our kids. Is is wrong to love your mom because she is your mom and have lost respect for her? I really need advice am i doing what is best, would it be wrong of me to keep my kids from seeing her? PLEASE HELP THANKS I am so confused and just plain ready to give up on my mom. There is alot more to this but too much more weirdness to write it all but you get the idea of just how MUCH I FEEL LIKE I AM ON A JERRY SPRINGER SHOW !!!!!!!!!!!!
And now that they have split my mom need a place to stay or atleast a place to park her stuff I had to tell her sorry i couldnt help this time. I feel bad but i just can go threw this crazy stuff again. I want a normal atleast half way normal life but she just has to keep having something come up.
I have been having that kind of time lately. Me and my mother never really seen eye to eye. She has done alot of things to hurt the family and I was really trying to be the one who forgives her and let the past be the past and now she has gone and stired up the pot again.
I feel like i am living on a JERRY SPRINGER SHOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok this is too weird, Ok my sister got married and they were going to have a baby. Well we had all went camping and my sister started having some pains I went to look for my mom and my sisters hubby but nowhere to be found so i rushed my sister back home and called my grandmother who is a nurse. And she came rightover. Well it was too late my sister had lost the baby and still no mom or sisters hubby to be found. My sister was off to the hospital and i went on a search to find the rest of them. 3 hours later they show up finally. I try to explain what is going on and they just give me a look like they could care less. I knew something weird was going on. So i sat them down and began questions one after another until the truth had come out. OH THE UNSPEEKABLE THE WORST THING A MOTHER COULD DO TO HER DAUGHTER . She had stole her husband. So now i had to be the one to tell my sister cuz my mother and my sister husband sais they were not telling her. So i waited a few days until my sister had time to deal with the hospital and lossing a baby. Hard enough to go threw that on top of everything else i though, When i did tell her about what was going on She did not believe me. She hated me infact. and they went on with there lives like nothing happened. and the spilt 3 months later and my sister didnt speel to me for 3 months. My sister had come to terms with what was going on sometimes the heart just cant see what is in front of you or just dont want to believe it. Anyway some time passed and my sister started talking to my mother again and i did too. But over the past year she just keeps making up stories and lies to get attention. She even can to us and said she was dieing witch we all broke down until we found out it was not true. My sister no longer talks to my mother witch i really dont blame her i know she has been hurt alot. But i tried to forgive my mom and move forward again but i just cant do it anymore. Now my mother is spilting with the man that see stole from my sister, witch they split up every 3 months cuz they just cant seem to stop cheating on eachother. And on top of that my mom wants to adopt a baby just because it reminds her of my sisters baby how weird it that. (my sister found a nice man now and is married and has 2 kids that are adorable i might add.) But dont this just seem like she really wants my sisters life. She seems to have to do everything she does or wants whatever she has. I have 2 little boys myself and i dont want them growing up thinking that is how life is to be and that kind of actions are ok. My kids dont see my mom that often. And if they do they are never alone with her you just never know what is going to come out her mouth. She like to use the kids for show and tell more than anything and if noone is around then she dont want to play grandma and she asked if the kids could call her by her name cuz she dont think she is old enough to be grandma. She is 43 and thinks she is 16 still. She even tried to by a little sports car a orange one with racing strips haha. I just really think it is time to just let go even though she is my mother would that be wrong of me to cut her out of my life? Am i doing the right thing? It just hurts so much to know she will never really be a grandma to our kids. Is is wrong to love your mom because she is your mom and have lost respect for her? I really need advice am i doing what is best, would it be wrong of me to keep my kids from seeing her? PLEASE HELP THANKS I am so confused and just plain ready to give up on my mom. There is alot more to this but too much more weirdness to write it all but you get the idea of just how MUCH I FEEL LIKE I AM ON A JERRY SPRINGER SHOW !!!!!!!!!!!!
And now that they have split my mom need a place to stay or atleast a place to park her stuff I had to tell her sorry i couldnt help this time. I feel bad but i just can go threw this crazy stuff again. I want a normal atleast half way normal life but she just has to keep having something come up.
