Think Positive and Don´t give up Nikki!
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My best wishes and my prayers are with you!
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My best wishes and my prayers are with you!
Thankyou Jenny...I really appreciate your help. I'm so upset right now it's aweful. I just took a quick shower and my friend is on her way over to take me out for a bit- I called her the minute I accidently found those last night so she knows what's going on thankfully. I am going to wait till tomorrow night to talk to him when he's home....and I will definitely be calm (or at least try - we never do the whole yelling and fighting thing...so hopefully it will be ok..we always just sit down in the floor and talk- it works for us...). I hope he's honest and fesses up and throws all 13 away...but if he only throws away those three...then we're really gonna have a talk about it...Originally Posted by Jenny82
Nikki, I'm really sorry that you're having to go through this. I have had similar problems with my husband lying about pornography so I can imagine how you must feel. And I don't think that anyone here is going to judge you about your past, so please don't be worried about that! I think that the only thing that will make you feel better is talking to him and hearing his explanation. Try not to be too upset when you're talking to him because I can almost guarantee that he will become defensive, and it could turn into a bad argument. It is always best to talk in person, but if it were me, I might not be able to wait until he gets home from Orlando. If you can wait until then, then you are very strong! I definitely like your idea about only telling him about finding the 3 passes and seeing what he says. If he doesn't admit to the other 10 passes, then I would tell him about finding those. In my opinion, being a snoop is not nearly as bad as lying. I hope that it works out well for you.
I'm so glad your friend is taking you out- that definitely helps. You'll be okay.Originally Posted by StarryEyedTiGeR
Thankyou Jenny...I really appreciate your help. I'm so upset right now it's aweful. I just took a quick shower and my friend Renae is on her way over to take me out for a bit- I called her the minute I accidently found those last night so she knows what's going on thankfully. I am going to wait till tomorrow night to talk to him when he's home....and I will definitely be calm (or at least try - we never do the whole yelling and fighting thing...so hopefully it will be ok..we always just sit down in the floor and talk- it works for us...). I hope he's honest and fesses up and throws all 13 away...but if he only throws away those three...then we're really gonna have a talk about it...Thanks again...I really appreciate your help on this one.