Originally Posted by crittermom
Nikki,when you least expect it, he will ask you!!!
That's what i've kinda figured....so now i'm not saying anything and "acting" like i'm indifferent...this has gotta work
....he'll do it when/if he's ready i would never wanna "make" him....then it just wouldn't be right and it wouldn't be for the right intentions you know. I love him enough to wait a bit
. (Inside though i'm dying lol.....I already have baby names picked out and everything- that's one thing we both agree on is children- we both can't wait to have kids!!!
). Also, he's been acting more weird lately lol....and just this week he decided to sell his house in Virginia Beach (he owns two houses, the one we're in now, and one in Virginia Beach that he lived in when he was in the Navy before he transfered here.) Well, the home in VA. Beach he is planning on selling soon- he got an awesome offer for it, way more than he expected....so he wants to see that one and eithor buy this one he's in now in TN out right and never have to make another payment on it, and put the left over $ in savings (we're both big on saving
)...or, sell both houses and buy a bigger one....I know he wants a bigger one because he's planning on having a family...and now is the time to make the deicision house wise while he has the opportunity to and the market is right- he was so excited before he left this week that he told me when he gets back in town this week, we're going house shopping. I will definitely take pictures if he sees one he likes. It will take a while before he'd be able to move though because he'd have to sell 2 houses (yikes!) He has an awesome little lady in VA Beach that manages his property there so she is going to sell that one for him which is good....not sure about the house here though....i'd be kinda sad if he sold it in a way, I LOVE it....it's huge comapred to my duplex- i've always lived in a tiny place and never in a house before- so for me, his home is like a little mansion (3 bedroom 2 bath). Although the idea of him getting a new home is exciting too....Yea! So i'm excitied for him....I won't be moving in with him - not until I have a wedding ring on my hand (it's a religious thing for me
but I do stay with him often at his house when I have foster kittens to keep them seperate from my bunch...and especially now since I have ringworm -blahhh- so once i'm better i'm going back to my place, but I do visit Colin pretty often and kinda stay with him off and on in the mean time....so I will be at his house a lot if he does sell this one and gets a bigger one- which means one thing - I GET TO DECORATE!!! YEA!!!!
/ Humm...so with all this talk of getting a bigger house lately, that has to mean something right?