OK, first off, let me start this off by saying I am not a hoarder, and all of our cats are very healthy, well fed, vet checked at twice a year unless more visits are warranted, spayed/neutered, indoor only, and all of that. But - we have 12 cats in the house right now. At the end of last year, a very sick stray started hanging around, and he looked awful. I could tell he was an indoor cat until recently, and he was scared of everything that moved outside. So we neutered him and brought him in, which seemed like the right thing to do. I thought we had a home for him at the time, but the woman started having health problems and couldn't take him. So Oliver is still here, as we've been unable to find a home for him. The other cats don't really like him. He's been in the house for about ten months now, and all he ever does is sit by the door and whine, or lay in front of the door and sleep (except when the dry food is out, then he lays in front of that and scoops food into his mouth). At one point I even considered putting him back out since he seemed so miserable, but he wanted to come and go as he pleased. He must have been allowed to do that at his former home. Not here.
Then a stray cat had a litter of 5 on our back patio back in April, and they weren't in very good health. We ended up bringing them in (and the mom, until they were weaned), and a local agency told us that they would take them when the kittens were weaned. That time came and went, and they never returned any of our calls, letters, 3rd party contact attempts, or emails, and they don't have an office - they are strictly foster homes. The no-kill shelters were all full and still are, and we've been unsuccessful in finding homes for them because around here there are so many strays having kittens, it's insane. The only offer I had online was someone who was involved in selling animals to labs, even though he wouldn't admit it. Soooo.... now they are 6 months old and adorable as all get out.
We have a house that is large enough that they all COULD have their own space, but instead they ALL choose to follow me around the house constantly. If I close the door to play with some of my "regulars," the kittens start ripping up the carpet outside the door. We've tried blocking it, putting citronella on it, and sticky paws tape. My husband works nights and sleeps days and my son is, well, a teenager and largely unhelpful.
So I'm the primary caregiver, hence the followers. I love the kittens dearly, and all of our cats, of course, but my "regulars" (I guess now they are all regulars) seem to be getting annoyed and a couple of them depressed because of the demands for attention from the kittens and the lack of one-on-one time they got before the kittens arrived. Plus one is now over 13 years old and wants some quiet time. He's not getting much, except when the kittens sleep.
I know this is long and rambling, but I guess I just wonder if anyone has any advice or suggestions. I'm doing the best I can and getting them alone every chance I get (as anyone can tell who looks at the carpet in front of the doors!), but I feel so sad that my BoBo and Thumbs are depressed. Any ideas? Thank you for taking the time to read this, if you're still with me.
Stef
Then a stray cat had a litter of 5 on our back patio back in April, and they weren't in very good health. We ended up bringing them in (and the mom, until they were weaned), and a local agency told us that they would take them when the kittens were weaned. That time came and went, and they never returned any of our calls, letters, 3rd party contact attempts, or emails, and they don't have an office - they are strictly foster homes. The no-kill shelters were all full and still are, and we've been unsuccessful in finding homes for them because around here there are so many strays having kittens, it's insane. The only offer I had online was someone who was involved in selling animals to labs, even though he wouldn't admit it. Soooo.... now they are 6 months old and adorable as all get out.
We have a house that is large enough that they all COULD have their own space, but instead they ALL choose to follow me around the house constantly. If I close the door to play with some of my "regulars," the kittens start ripping up the carpet outside the door. We've tried blocking it, putting citronella on it, and sticky paws tape. My husband works nights and sleeps days and my son is, well, a teenager and largely unhelpful.
I know this is long and rambling, but I guess I just wonder if anyone has any advice or suggestions. I'm doing the best I can and getting them alone every chance I get (as anyone can tell who looks at the carpet in front of the doors!), but I feel so sad that my BoBo and Thumbs are depressed. Any ideas? Thank you for taking the time to read this, if you're still with me.
Stef