We rescued two abandoned feral kitties about a month ago. We work mostly from home, so we're here most of the time - at least one of us is. When we do both go out, it is generally when they're asleep (during the day), and we usually come home while they're still asleep.
We've returned home twice while they were awake (we were only gone an hour). Shelly is just fine - wants to explore the grocery bags, etc. Lazlo, on the other hand, acts almost like he doesn't recognize us. He backs up, looks scared and freaked out. If I reach down to pick him up for a cuddle, he squirms away (and not like when he just doesn't want a cuddle), with claws if necessary, and races to his safe "hiding" place.
We coax him out with a treat, then play with him, and he gets back to normal.
Is there something we can do? Is this something that just takes time? Is there a chance he'll always be like this?
Thanks - don't want to scare our kitty just by coming home!
We've returned home twice while they were awake (we were only gone an hour). Shelly is just fine - wants to explore the grocery bags, etc. Lazlo, on the other hand, acts almost like he doesn't recognize us. He backs up, looks scared and freaked out. If I reach down to pick him up for a cuddle, he squirms away (and not like when he just doesn't want a cuddle), with claws if necessary, and races to his safe "hiding" place.
We coax him out with a treat, then play with him, and he gets back to normal.
Is there something we can do? Is this something that just takes time? Is there a chance he'll always be like this?
Thanks - don't want to scare our kitty just by coming home!