I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my dad when I was little, and everyone rallied around our family and helped wherever they could. I don't know how my mum coped, but she did, and was so strong, and was always there for us.
Accept the help offered from around you, and know that you will get through this, and while the pain will never go away, you will learn to live with it.
I am soo sorry to hear about your husbands passing. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Please feel free to pm me if you need to speak with anyone. You are in my prayers as are your children.
Condolences from KittenKiya's Clan. Cancer is such a difficult thing to try and deal with. I know it sounds trite, but your loved one is in a much better place and he is not suffering.
Thanks to all of you for your support for me and my family at this time it has helped a great deal.
Please keep the good thoughts going on Monday 9th Oct (Australian time) as that will be the day of the funeral. I'm sure that I am going to fall to pieces afterwards and your good thoughts will help me heaps.
There isn't much one can say at a time like this. Of course I'll add my coping vibes to you and your family and cyber hugs to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
I am only just reading this thread now so I am sorry I did not offer condolences earlier. May you and the family get through this difficult time with your strength intact and may you all find comfort in each other. It is an awful thing to happen.