A little background,
5 years ago I purchased a short-haired calico for my wife. After 8 months it was very obvious that Kali was lonely so we brought home a brother and sister (Grey and White, Max, and a Tortie, Tails). All three got along very well and things were great. 4 months ago I bought a house in the country (desert) and installed a cat door for the little devils. All three are de-clawed and spayed /neutered. This concerned me as they would have little defense if the need arised, but they seemed to stand their ground with the local rif-raf cats. But to my great displeasure my Calico (Alpha cat) disappeared 7 days ago. I fear an owl or nighthawk was the culprit. My questions (observations too) are about this incident. The other two, Max and Tails, went through two distinctly different greiving periods that are just now seeming to end. Max (male) immediately established his domainance over Tails (female), but not agressively. He now takes the lead in everything they do, and has spent the last 6 days outside unless he is eating. Tails became very despondent and didn't eat for 5 days, spending the entire time sitting on the porch (waiting for Kali to return, in my opinion). She has just recently been active again and eating, and has taken up Kali's spot on my bed at night. Is this a normal behaivior for grieving cats? It doesn't suprise me to much, but it is fascinating to see the new interactions now that they are down to two. I miss Kali dearly, but want to make the transition as easy as possible for the others, any suggestions?
Another issue that has been put on the back burner because of the dissapearance was adding a small dog to the household. I am a dog person at heart, but have the cats due to a divorce and have come to love these furry balls of oddness. I would like a small dog, but I have concerns about the "changing of the guard". I will definetely put this off for a while because of the current issues, but has anyone had experience with adding a K-9 to the feline mix?
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated,
Thanks,
Lloyd Turner
5 years ago I purchased a short-haired calico for my wife. After 8 months it was very obvious that Kali was lonely so we brought home a brother and sister (Grey and White, Max, and a Tortie, Tails). All three got along very well and things were great. 4 months ago I bought a house in the country (desert) and installed a cat door for the little devils. All three are de-clawed and spayed /neutered. This concerned me as they would have little defense if the need arised, but they seemed to stand their ground with the local rif-raf cats. But to my great displeasure my Calico (Alpha cat) disappeared 7 days ago. I fear an owl or nighthawk was the culprit. My questions (observations too) are about this incident. The other two, Max and Tails, went through two distinctly different greiving periods that are just now seeming to end. Max (male) immediately established his domainance over Tails (female), but not agressively. He now takes the lead in everything they do, and has spent the last 6 days outside unless he is eating. Tails became very despondent and didn't eat for 5 days, spending the entire time sitting on the porch (waiting for Kali to return, in my opinion). She has just recently been active again and eating, and has taken up Kali's spot on my bed at night. Is this a normal behaivior for grieving cats? It doesn't suprise me to much, but it is fascinating to see the new interactions now that they are down to two. I miss Kali dearly, but want to make the transition as easy as possible for the others, any suggestions?
Another issue that has been put on the back burner because of the dissapearance was adding a small dog to the household. I am a dog person at heart, but have the cats due to a divorce and have come to love these furry balls of oddness. I would like a small dog, but I have concerns about the "changing of the guard". I will definetely put this off for a while because of the current issues, but has anyone had experience with adding a K-9 to the feline mix?
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated,
Thanks,
Lloyd Turner