And this is just why I came here and posted -- I knew I would have the wisdom and support of people who have been through this and understand. Thank you all so much for your thoughtful replies.
Misterwhiskers, I hear you and appreciate what you have to say. I fear letting things go so long...
Hello, and thank you in advance to all who take time to read and possibly offer thoughts about my situation. I joined today specifically to post this sad question and hear from others who I know love their cats as much as I love mine, and possibly have faced something similar.
My kitty is 13...