Thank you guys so much! Those are some really good ideas I can't wait to try. He is not neutered but he will be soon. Is there a certain age when it's no longer safe to neuter them?
I have a wand toy with a mouse on the end. I do play with him but not that many times a day. I will work on that...
Just wanted to add declawing is NOT an option. I don't know if people still do that or believe in it but I refuse to do that. I don't let my cat outside unattended but he tries his hardest to slide out the door when it's open and if he were ever to take off I want him to at least have a chance...
I have had several cats in my life and have NEVER had the problems I am having with my cat, Sebastian. He's not any certain breed that I know of. Just came from a litter off the farm. He is one of the only cats I've had that was allowed to be weaned from his mother completely naturally, meaning...